please help urgent

[tamtam305]

im about 6 weeks preg, no cramping, bleeding nothing. my hcg levels were at 54000 then droppted to 30000 but still no bleeding cramping nothing, i went for a dating ultrasound as i had a baby in nov 2009 and havent had a period since. the ultrasound could only pick up a yolks sac so the said come back in 2 weeks, i did and they then saw a fetal pole how ever no heart beat, come back in a week they said i did no heart beat detected again. im now 6 weeks n 1 day all up. they r saying to me a non viable pregnancy and wanna do a c&d but ive no signs at all of anything being wrong only for my dropped hcg levels... please help with advise as they ahve given me 1 more week, i dont wanna get this wrong

[tamtam305]

the most important thing for me to do is heal my heart i know and i will over time, i just hope i get a chance from god again to be lucky again....

[tamtam305]

thankyou ladies for your answers but unfortunatly they have come to late, the dr's at the hospital made it clear to me the baby was dead and they said i was in deniel, ive never felt soooooo hurt in my life as to what ive now gone threw even though ive m/c before.
There manners are discusting n now im left with was it still really to early to tell or had it simply just gone to heaven. im lost im blamming my self as when i found out i was pregnant after having a baby in nov i was shocked but i prommis to god that it didnt take long to grow on me and id started buying its stuff like car seat n i was yet again loving it for my 7th baby to arrive only to be treated the way i was from the dr's. i dont think ill ever get over this now with so much doubt, i couldnt get a second opinion as the dr from westmead needed to cancle my appt, he was a firtility dr and he was awsome onn the ph to me, ive delt with him before to have our 6th child last yr. im going to try again, so do you ladies know how soon i can after a d n c that i can fall. i dont wanna wait..

[lil_lady25]

From experience and past m/c my levels dropped as well. The doctors said the HCG numbers would double every/every other day and if they went down that meant I would m/c. Not trying to discourage but just speaking from experience. Although it is still early to detect a heartbeat maybe you can get a second opinion or go back in a week later and check again. I wish you lots of luck. Keep us posted on what happens. Take Care.

[faith_in_HIM]

I think if you want to have an absolute answer then the best thing to do is wait and keep getting ultrasounds and hCG checks. If your docs wont do it then get a second opinion. You are still very early so try your absolute best to relax. The great news is they saw the yolk sac then 2 weeks later saw a fetal pole. Sometimes heart beats aren't detected until 8-9 weeks, I think it's way to early to call it quits. I hope you find peace in whatever decision you make and I pray it is just too early and the docs are wrong. God Bless and please keep me posted.