Sad Christmas 2009 6 weeks and Miscarriage

[Chynalousgirl]

I just lost my baby at 6 weeks on Christmas Eve, I am very sad. I was so excited I gave my mother a box full of baby things that said I love Grandma earlier this week. It happened so fast. I woke up on Christmas Eve and there was pink mucus, so I just thought the baby was settling. I continued on my day to go shopping for last minute things. Later feeling little cramping, I decided to go home and rest. I knew something wasn't right, I no longer had Breast tenderness. I stopped by a restaurant to get a sandwhich, and had to use the bathroom. There I wiped and there was Brown Blood. Once I got home I laid down and began to have sharp cramping. I wiped it was Red blood. I knew something was wrong then I passed clots. I was then rushed to ER and was told I had a miscarriage and there was no baby or heartbeat on U/S. This Christmas 2009 was a very Sad Christmas for me and my family.

God Bless, you all!!
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[keirajane]

so sorry for your lost i lost our baby boxing day last year 2008 with bad cramping went to emergency and no heart beat, i did'nt start bleeding till 5 days later then by jan i was preg again and have just had a beautiful baby girl and was so scared when i got preg with her so soon but every thing happens for a reason
all the best chick
xxx

[Chynalousgirl]

Thanks KeiraJ, you give me hope. We plan to try aain next year sometime. Congrats on your Baby girl!! Take Care!

[jewels77]

So sorry to hear about your loss.  I had a miscarriage in November and I was very upset.  I always tried to be positive and focus on the fact that the baby wasn't able to survive for some reason.  I tried to focus on the fact that I could actually get pregnant and I was "lucky" that it happened early in the pregnancy instead of later on.  I had a friend that lost a baby at 30 weeks, so I try to think of her when I'm down.

I know it is way to early to think about it, but you'll be able to try again.  I did after my miscarriage and now I am pregnant again with twins...  Not looking too good right now as I had spotting and they are different sizes, so who knows.  At least we can get pregnant, small blessings I know.

Take care and hope 2010 is your year! x

[Chynalousgirl]

Thank you!  I am starting to feel better finally. I went for beta today I will have the numbers tomorrow. I sometimes wish that they were wrong and when they check my numbers they will be higher. We are thinking of trying again next year but I am just not feeling anything right now...but I know that will change. :) Congrats on your twins (how far along are you?) Let me know how you all are doing. I know they will be fine, I will keep you all in my prayers.

Take care!!
Chyna

[jewels77]

I'm not far along with the twins, just over 6 1/2 weeks.  Since I got pregnant right after my miscarriage they aren't sure of dates.  I could be having another failing pregnancy again.  I have another scan on the 4th, so I hope I can actually see two fetal poles.  I've only been able to see two gestational sacs and yolk sacs.  This is all I could see with the first miscarriage so I'm concerned. I'm sure there is a lot more drama coming my way. I'm happy there are two (but shocked) but the likelihood of probs is v concerning.

Hope your bloodwork goes ok.  Good luck in 2010.

J

[mommato5]

Think of it this way . Your baby was invited to Jesus' birthday party and wanted to be early. I'm sure he is taking  much care of it now. Sorry for your lost ,i have three in heaven now . I will always have a baby to hold when i get to heaven.. and you as well.

[Kricket212]

Hi there,

I am so sorry for your loss. I just found out I am  miscarrying my baby at 6 weeks also although I have not even started bleeding yet.  It turns out during u/s the baby just stopped growing.  Did you do D/C?  I am an IVF girl so not sure I would be able to get pregnant immediatly after although we will try.

My prayers are with you.