WELCOME TO THE MISCARRIAGE COMMUNITY!

[ArmyPrincess819]

                                                           WELCOME

This is a community full of support and understanding for those who are experiencing past or present miscarriage of for those who have loved ones or friends who may be experiecing one. Miscarriage is a very painful and emotional time. There are so many unanswered questions that we search to try to find the answers. Sometimes all we need to hear is we are not the only ones. Most of us in this community have experienced a miscarriage. That has helped this community to provide understanding and compassion to anyone who comes along. This is a safe forum where opinions may be heard and not judged. We always welcome new posts and new friends. I hope your experience in this community will be a great one. Please feel free to join everyone is welcome!

Sincerely,
Your Community Leader

[bkeefe]

hello ladies i was 12 weeks pregnant when i went into labor . I went to the er because i was bleeding and it felt like i was having contractions . the nurse told me i was miscarrying most likely and wouldnt be having contractions . i have four kids and i know what labors feels like . unfortunately i was out of town with my boyfriend for work and had no one to watch my two children that went out of town so i had my 12 year old son and my 6 mth old baby with me . they put me in a room and told me to put on the gown . i felt a sudden urge to push . naturally my body began to push . after a few pushes i gave birth to my baby in my hands . my oldest son was right there . i had a d and e done . since then it has been really hard . sometimes i dont even want to get out of bed . me and my now fiance have been trying to concieve .every month i get my hopes up . this month i even began lactating and just knew for sure i was pregnant . but another negative test was all i got . i dont know what to do . and to be honest all i want is baby back . i dont understand how and why god could give me such a gift and then take it away . my youngest sister found out she was pregnant a few days ago with her first . i found myself somewhat jealous . i guess i just need some people who have been through the same thing to talk to .

[daisy0307]

i had a miscarrige 2 weeks ago and i was 4 weeks 5 days. i went to the hospital and the doctor didnt tell me i had to wait for 2-3 cycles before trying again so as soon as my bleeding stopped, me and my fiance had unproected sex and now i may be pregnant again and i'm scared to death.i cant handle another miscarriage at all.

[ashleigh120680]

I went to the hospital on the 4 june and they told me there was no heartbeat, i was 9 weeks and 4 days, they gave me 3 options let it go naturally, take tablets or hv a dnc, i chose to let nature take ts course, after 2 weeks nothing happened, i went in and decided to take the tablets, now i no that wasthe worst decision i have ever made. i took 1 tablet last tuesday and had to go back last thursday to have 4 pesiries inserted into me. i went through labour till the baby passed. i was in hospital for 10 hours waiting. it finally happened. i was then asked to sign a form because it was a recognisable foetus it had to be cremated, i recieved a phone call yesterday from funeral directors telling me that they are holding a funeral for my baby next tues 29 at te crematorium, its killing me and i feel as if my head is very screed up. Has anyone else been in this position and how did you overcome it all

[Little2Feet]

new to the community  here  were  41 common law married for 5 years in Canada  BC vancouver and  so much in love with each other  we decided not to get married  its  just a legal paper  to spend money on  wed rather spend that money on  trying  for a baby.

I had a m/c  on june  20th  passed  the embryo at 8 weeks old saw the formation begin to happen with the skin  starting or so it looked like  skin formming on it. saw where the embryo was  the head  arm and feet stubs. no one  was  around  to comfort me till a few days later.  however i look at it  this way  at least we were  fertile  enough and i didnt need a  d&c  this  round. we are  41  trying for a first one yet.

[llayton2010]

Went in today for second U/S after completing IVF.  Last week we saw a sac.  Today there was nothing.  I will be stopping all my meds and wait for AF to arrive.  The doctor did offer meds.

[cheri211]

hi i was 12 weeks pregnant with my first when i started bleeding, it was painless bleeding and i got rushed to AnE, i was kept in untill the next day where i had a scan and everything showed up was fine. they thought it was a failed twin or a hemorage but said that my baby was fine. so in and out of hospital for scans and plenty of rest the next 2 weeks i then started clotting i went back to the hospital where they said i had low fluid in my babys sac he had a good strong heartbeat tho. but said it looks like i will misscarry they waited another few days to see what happend then sent me for another scan my baby was still alive but all the fluid had gone completely, i had to make the discision of waiting natually to give birth or be induced, they adviced me to be induced because id been bleeding for over 3 weeks now and was really poorly, i could get an infection so i had to be induced, after 9 hours i gave birth to my lovely baby that i miss so much and feel so bad for, but it was best for me and my baby, i then had to go on and have a blood transfusion, so im so very sorry for all u mums out there in simila situation i wish doctors could help us more as its so heartbreaking... love goes out to you all.. and my precious precious lil baby xx