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11864648 tn?1421729572

bàbys not going to make it

I'm in the office can't leave the room I'm crying so hard. My levels were not good enough and the ultrasound shows no growth. They want to give me pills miscarry at home or DC at the hospital. Im a mess. I dont want to loose the baby.
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Sorry you're going through this. I'm praying for you and baby. Hopefully a second opinion tells you theres a chance. Perhaps not scheduling it would give you more peace of mind in the future and doesn't leave you thinking "what if.."  And maybe its a good thing you found out what the babys dad is really like in a difficult situation in your life. You deserve someone that will be there for you no matter what.
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So sorry, I'm thinking of youu. Sending prayers & positive vibes!
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11864648 tn?1421729572
So the levels came back and they didn't go up any more.  So right now they are scheduling a d/c for wednesday. In the mean time i will try to get a second opinion.
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11864648 tn?1421729572
So the levels came back and they didn't go up any more.  So right now they are scheduling a d/c for wednesday. In the mean time i will try to get a second opinion.
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I've had 2 miscarriages before this one it's really hard to lose something you love so much I get it . I'm so sorry for your lose
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I'm so sorry your going through this. I dont have advice because I haven't miscarried or been in similar situation. I'm ftm, so I don't know much. But about the baby daddy, he is so immature & selfish. Please don't focus any of your energy of him, I wouldn't even talk to him. Focus your health & see another doctor about the baby's growth, sometimes doctors make mistakes and 2nd opinion might change.
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