miscarriage

[lilbit0922]

I had a miscarriage on April 25 and now I feel like I am not gonna b able to get pregnant again!! Any advice

[beautifulmum]

hello my name is jodi and i just recently lost my first son, i didnt know it was a son til i had to deliver him in hospital after he had passed sometime ago.  it is the worst feeling to loss a baby and pregnancy. i was 20weeks but baby only developed to about 15 weeks. I too am immediately trying to concieve asap as i am dying without pregnancy.
i was told if i have a 30 day cycle that my days for ovulation and conception are day 14-16 and i was told to have sex on those two dates and maybe the day before.  
i am really curious to know how long after miscarriage to you drop another egg i was told it is possible to concieve 14 days after the bleeding started
can anyone comment...

[udbe2]

Oh hun, I'm so sorry you are feeling this way.  I know exactly what you are going through.  I'm 39 and suffered from 8 miscarriages with no kids.  I recently found out I was pregnant after 2 years of not falling pregnant.  I am sure it was twins because of how early I found out and how high the levels were.  I started spotting but have since stopped.  My levels did decrease a little but my symptoms are only getting stronger now so I am pretty sure it was twins but now a single.  

Take some time to heal and when you are ready try again.  I just pretty much stopped tracking and stressing when this one happened.

[rach301]

Tips

(1) Track your cycles, you need to know how many days ur cycle is. Mine is 33 days every month, so you half the cycle and that would be ur ovalation day, see link below:

http://www.justmommies.com/ovulation-calendar.shtml

(2) Buy the Clear Blue Fertilty Moniter or the Clear Blue Digital Ovalation test.

(3) Keep taking the pregancy tablets and eat healthy

(4) Exercise as much as you can, helps to balance out ur Hormones.

That's it really, Just the basic stuff :-)

Good Luck

[rach301]

Dear Libit0922

You're feeling this way because you lack confidence & trust in your body now. The way you view this disappointment is that your body let you down badly, so any faith and hope is no longer there anymore.

This has lead you to believe that you wont be able to fall pregant and even if you do, your scared of a 2nd miscarriage.

Believe me when I say I understand what your going through, as I feel the same way as you. My first and only pregancy ended in a missed miscarriage, and now i feel scared and as fearful as you.

However I try and remain positive, and although I wish I never experienced this, it has also been a great learning curve. It has given me the understanding of what women go through and how to deal with a women who has suffered a miscarriage. I am able to offer a listening ear and say things that make sense to them, and I avoid the things that should not be said, that peopleoften say, who have not suffered a miscarriage!

This is the great positive I have taken from this situation, but i hope and pray that it was just a one off, and it never happens again. When and If I have children, I will continue to offer my support to this miscarriage blog and help women suffering from miscarriages as much as possible.

In my eyes, whatever will be will be and if am meant to have kids, then i will, if not then that's my fate and there is nothing i can do.

I hope this is not the case and i remain positive and so should you. You have fallen pregant once, there is no reason why it wont happen again.

Takecare

Rachel