Aa
why me
I am so mad right now. I feel like crap. I just found out I was pregnant. About a week ago. Only to have it end. I am going to the doctors. but i know i lost the baby now. I woke up with really bad cramps and had to go to the bathroom. I looked in the toliet and there was a big clot with tissue. I have had 4 m/c's and it hurts every time. I think that it meant for me to only have my daughter who is 6. I dont want to stop having babies. I just am so sad. I dont know what to do. My doctor put me on prometrium. and it didnt help... How do you cope with the m/c's you have. The longest i was pregnant was for 14 weeks. And that one was the hardest because i seen the baby. And We buried that baby. I just am glad i didnt flush another baby down the toliet. I have this one. And it is going to have test to see why it died. thanks for reading
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I'm sorry for your loss :(
I'm just being treated for an ectopic pregnancy that they found at 7 weeks, 12 weeks ago I miscarried at 6 weeks. I don't really feel sad. I feel disappointed because twice now I have had that feeling where you get your BFP and think this is it. I'm getting used to it I s'pose.
I think the reason it doesn't affect me as much is that I already have 20 month old twins. I miscarried before them and it was like the world had ended for about 8 weeks (then I found out I was pregnant with them) but now I have children it doesn't seem to.
I am also desperate to extend my family-I just know I want four. BUT we have children and we have to feel so lucky for that because we could have all just miscarried after several attempts of failed IVF or not even been able to get pregnant yet.
I think the only way to make it better is to just hang on in there and get pregnant again.
Big Hugs x
I'm just being treated for an ectopic pregnancy that they found at 7 weeks, 12 weeks ago I miscarried at 6 weeks. I don't really feel sad. I feel disappointed because twice now I have had that feeling where you get your BFP and think this is it. I'm getting used to it I s'pose.
I think the reason it doesn't affect me as much is that I already have 20 month old twins. I miscarried before them and it was like the world had ended for about 8 weeks (then I found out I was pregnant with them) but now I have children it doesn't seem to.
I am also desperate to extend my family-I just know I want four. BUT we have children and we have to feel so lucky for that because we could have all just miscarried after several attempts of failed IVF or not even been able to get pregnant yet.
I think the only way to make it better is to just hang on in there and get pregnant again.
Big Hugs x
Honey I am so sorry for your loss...I too just miscarried on Friday....I had another in April...I do understand how sad you are...me and my husband want a baby together so badly I have 3 children from a previous marriage....
I know it is very hard but you have to stay strong and focus on getting better....Let us know what the tests show...
I had my tissue tested and it was inconclusive so I still dont know
My heart and prayers go out to you
I know it is very hard but you have to stay strong and focus on getting better....Let us know what the tests show...
I had my tissue tested and it was inconclusive so I still dont know
My heart and prayers go out to you
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I too have a beautiful 6 yr old son and am very blessed to have him but we also want to expand our family, i find it so so sad that he has no brothers or sisters to interact with, he does have cousins, 2nd cousins and friends but I feel it isnt the same and the older he gets the worse I feel as he is missing out!
I just wanted to let you know you're not alone and I hope you achieve your dreams of having more babies, I know I'm going to keep trying :) Best Wishes