when is my turn?

[shier]

i am ... i dunno how to say how i feel.. every1 trying to get preg, gets preg but NOT me.. y is tat so... i tried to let go.. be happy for my frens and sis and sil who got preg while i was also ttc.. but jus y it is not happening to me.. its only been less den a yr since my loss.. yet every1 ard me gets preg.. :(

[shier]

thanks all for ur encouragement.. wonder why up till now my AF is still so irregular..

[natalie910]

You'll get your turn and I am so sorry for your loss. It is so emotional, that is why it makes you sad when you find out others are pg. I hope you get your BFP soon. Keep us posted.

[shier]

immediately i broke down right while on the way home.. when my hubby told me 1 of my good fren is giving birth next week! n another already pregnant for 14 weeks.. and i wasnt aware... they told my hubby.. maybe thinking i might not be able to take it.. n YES! i cried uncontrollably.. my hubby told me not to be sad.. "HOW CAN I NOT BE?" he said our turn will come soon... i know and still hoping.. this is the 3rd and 4th news this month i knew my frens were pregnant!! i am truly happy for all of them... BUT den i ask myself.. really when will it be me????

[steph9803]

Like bam said, it will happen..It's a long trying journey but in the end it will be so worth it.

[bam1014]

I feel for what you are going through.  It took us 2 years just to get our BFP only to have it snatched away with a m/c.  It's now been 7 months since the m/c and we are still struggling to conceive.  It can be a long painful journey, but in the end it will all be worth it.

It can take a healthly couple up to a year to conceive.  With all of the complacated things that all have to happen at the right time, it is a miracle anybody gets pregnant.  You only have about a 20% chance each cycle.

Just make sure that you are taking care of yourself and staying healthy and believe that it WILL happen.