Umm, I found this, which is an entire foundation dedicated to hemispherectomy:
http://hemifoundation.intuitwebsites.com/facts.html
These are questions they recommend asking the surgeons:
Questions to ask neurologists / neurosurgeons.
* What happens if the EMU EEG shows that my child is having seizure activity in the Good Hemisphere? Does that disqualify my child from surgery?
* What if the seizure activity is beginning in the bad side, but quickly moves to the other side? Would that disqualify my child from surgery?
* What are the qualifications for surgery? Paresis? Failed Medications?
* How long can we wait for surgery? What is the hospital schedule and how long will it take until surgery?
* Surgeon: How many Hemispherectomies have you done? Neurologist: How many Hemispherectomies have you been involved in?
* How many Hemispherectomies has this hospital done?
* What special training/experience do you have with Hemispherectomy surgery?
* May I have a tour of the PICU and In-Patient Rehab Facility?
* Will my child be able to speak after surgery? If left-side, should you do a WADA test to ensure that her language center has moved to the right hemisphere? Is my child to young for a WADA Test? If it hasn’t moved yet, can we wait a few months on surgery in hopes more language will transfer? Would it do any good to wait?
* What type of Hemispherectomy approach do you propose? Hemisphereotomy? Anatomic, Functional, or somewhere in between? What are the pros and cons of each? Returning Seizures? Hydrocephelus? Shunt?
* Explain Hemianopsia to me? Will my child have that after surgery? What does that mean to her vision?
* In PICU, Do you ensure that the head is hemispherectomy-side up until enough time has passed that the cavity has filled with cerebrospinal fluid? Only then moving the head to midline. (face up) Is it important?
* Can you tell me the difference in how you would approach a hemispherectomy for a child with this disease versus a child with Hemimegalencephaly (HME), Sturge-Weber Syndrome, Rasmussen’s Syndrome, Stroke, Other? If any.
* There are no guarantees, but how long would you guess that my child would stay in PICU if all goes well? Regular Room? In-patient Rehab?
* Will my child be dazed, non-emotional the first several days after surgery? How long can this last?
* Memory Loss? Cognitive Loss? Personality Loss?
* Explain Hemiplegia? Will my child be hemiplegic right after surgery? Will those muscles wake up, but be permanently weak? Does that include torso muscles, swallowing muscles, lips, tongue, etc?
* Explain Hemiparesis? Is this permanent?
* What are other possible complications of surgery?
From what I can tell, it's best done on children under 14.
I obviously don't know how you feel (bar shocked and devastated), but do you WANT to live like this? You have your faith, which must bring you comfort. I just find that so often in dire siutations everyone rushes to find a solution, when sometimes there just isn't one and the end of life looms.
Good luck in your decisions.
I am very sad and concerned to hear this bad news. Know that I am praying for you and for those who are caring for you. You have all of our love and support here.
I would like to know who the "they" are that has given the diagnosis and suggestion for this surgery. Please, please get a second opinion. Your neurologist who has suggested fairy dust for you in the past may not be the best option even for a referral. She should have referred you out a long time ago. Do you have any other options to go to a facility/neurosurgeon who is on top of their game? If not, we'll have to find you one.
Your newest MRI needs to be looked at and looked at again by top-notch neurosurgeons. Your case could be intriguing to one of the neurological guru's and catch their interest. Your history and newest finding is SCREAMING for a fresh look. Having Medicaid puts you at a disadvantage but doesn't eliminate it all together.
I'll help. Please PM me if you will allow me to do some calls and homework on your behalf.
Jan-
I can't even begin to imagine what you must be going through. I am speechless, as well. I, too, urge you to get a second opinion and to ask these very important questions that others have posted.
I have never heard of anyone going through this surgery. I wouldn't think it was even possible. Then to add on all of your other dx's. Man oh man, do you need family and friend support especially now and most definitely after the surgery, if you opt to have it done.
I will be praying for you with all the others. Please share with us when you can.
Hugs,
Addi
Jan, I pray that God's grace will be sufficient for you as you battle this disease. I'll be praying for you.
Jan - This has shaken me too.
I feel speechless and just want you to know that if I could, I'd wrap a warm embrace around you and tell you how very proud I am of you for getting through what you do each and every day. And, thank you for allowing us to be apart of your life.
Your faith shines through your words and I know that will provide you comfort you while you face what's next. Please consider a 2nd opinion too like Supermum so desperately urges.
Know I'm thinking of you and praying.
-Shell