As far as I know, and perhaps I’m not one to say, but I do know HOCD is stemmed from an intense fear of thinking you may be gay. Keep in mind, HOCD is terrifying enough to trick you into thinking you enjoy these thoughts.
See a psychiatrist if you can, if not, don’t ignore the thoughts and etc. You need to learn to be peaceful with these thoughts. Indirectly agree with them if you have the heart to do it.
This is all sourced from what other people say, hope this helped.