Ovarian Cancer has killed off most of my family, and the remaining women on my Dad's side have it. My Dad carries the Cancer gene and never told me. My cousin told me a few days ago, after I was sent to the hospital by my Doctor. After tests and image care, ovarian cysts and an ovarian torsion was revealed on my right ovary. The hospital tried to remove it that night, but I refused and I want to know more... What happens when you remove an ovary? This is all making me feel like less of a woman. My partner is understanding, but this is freaking him out. Tomorrow I go to get "explored" (BLEGH!) for cancer and other things... Then we schedule surgery. Hopefully they don't operate tomorrow... I have vacations, siblings graduating afar... I can't miss that. I don't know what to do, I don't know anything about this, I need advice? Experiences? Something!... (I'm 20 years old, I'm a secretary, I live a vibrant life.)