DoeEyedGirl,
Your symptoms are classical cyst symptoms. I went through lot of test, after 2 yrs they detected 4 cm cyst. Later Cyst disappeared. And after 2 years I had Emergency lap surgery. Cyst was twisted itself number of times and right ovary was also twisted 8-9 times. 4 hours before surgery I went to see my Gyn because I was not able to take pain anymore, Gyn did my Ultra sound, and she failed to see any cyst and she send me to Emergency suspecting Appendicitis.
I will advise you, ask OBGYN to do transvaginal scope test.
It's fairly common procedure to monitor a cyst to determine if it may resolve on its own, and many times they will do exactly that.
Two of the primary symptoms of ovarian cancer are bloating and feeling full even after eating the smallest amount. The loss of libido may simply be that you are worrying and stressed. Stress can cause loss of libido understandably.
If you are concerned, a second opinion may be warranted, although getting in to see a Gyn/Oncologist can sometimes be challenging. Here in Florida they will only see patients referred by a Gynecologist when there is a strong suspicion of malignancy. Their feeling is that if they saw everyone with a cyst, there would be no time to see those that definitely need their services. I've heard others on the forum express the same situation.
Here's something to remember : Cysts (especially simply cysts) are very, very, very common and 95 % benign. Waiting a month won't make any crucial difference in treatment I don't believe. Check out the top right of this page--"Health Pages". It has a lot of information about cysts .. and above all, try not to worry..
Sandy
I tend to think cysts cause a wide range of systematic changes: libido, hormones, thyroid function, energy levels, bowel/bladder, etc. I even had hair loss from it. I didn't know how "sick" I was until my vile cyst was removed and my system slowly reset itself to normal. I had a "fluid filled" cyst that was benign (it was not "simple"). The word "simple" is supposed to be the best kind to have, usually the type that occurs monthly as part of ovulation, and I think cysts that are suspicious have more suspicious qualities on an ultrasound.....but I can't say for certain. At 4.4 cm, it is getting close to the size (5 cm) where they start talking about surgery, but they are probably hoping it will resolve on its own.
If it worries you that much, you might want to get referred to a specialist: a gynecologist/oncologist. They specialize in female pelvic cancers, but really specialize in anything that is growing and may need removal, including benign cysts. If a gyn/onc is not overly concerned, then you shouldn't be either. If, however he/she is concerned and wants to take action, then you've taken an important proactive step in protecting your health.