i am 44. have had 4 c-sections and 2 uterine ablations after last c-section fromuterine hemorrage..i have had 2 er trips since nov..1st one i had severe pain in lower rt abdomen when gettin up out of bed felt like belly ripped open.They did catscan for appendix or hernia said both neg and they only saw a cyst on ovary and sent home.2nd time i at work lifting milk crates thought i slipped a disk right above tailbone.severe pain in spine and left hip coulnt stand up straight or lift leg and walkin difficult.i had some urine dribbling.hey did mri said all fine just pulled muscle and sent home.finally i was able to get appt for ob,after 10 sec of exam said i did have a hernia at end of c-section scar on rt side.he could feel a cyst on ovary but didnt think that big and felt lymph nodes in rt groin swelled.he ordered ultrasound 2 wks later.The tech said it would take 1 1/2-2 wks for results...the dr called me at 7pm that night.ultra sound showed uterus with trace fluid (possibly from ablations it said) small scattered hyperechoic masses .an anterior fibroid.cervix with several nabothian cyst one the size of 2.06x 1.85x 1.05 that is hemorrhagic. left ovary has several small calcifications and rt ovary has a septated complex cyst 6.80x 5.59x 3.69 cm with debris seen...ob dr said i need surgery relatively soon since they have a possibility being cancer when they get this size, but also wanted another surgeon ther to repair hernia.i had to see other surgeon 1st before they could set up surgery.the general surgeon agreed i did have hernia and would takke groin lymph nodes out because they so swollen and hurt. that was 8 days ago and they still have not set up surgery. it has been 1 month since ultrasound.i now having more trouble and cryin most of time from the pain.my belly now looks like i am 7 months pregnant and the pain is up into my diaphragm now. my rt back of inner thigh and behind knee is aching and feels numb with burning senation at times and up into rt buttock.My rt groin lymph nodes are even bigger and hard and sooo sore,it hurts to sit ,walk,but when i lay my leg throbs more even with pillow propped between legs.my tailbone area of back is still aching and tight feeling.ihad no trouble with bowels but now i go 2-3x a day and they loose most of time.After i urinate,wipe and stand up i am dribbing urine! i have called both dr for surgery time for last 3 days they keep giving me run around,one nurse said she called ob dr fri to set surgery up but when i talked to that nurse she said oh well i just got a call mon afternoon.....we will call you when we can figure out a time.She said they hav different schedueles and operate at different hosp(right next to each other!) they still havent called.i called yesterday asked for appt to see my ob dr again that i am having more problems and extreme pain and cant sleep from the leg throbbing and lymph node pain...they said you cant see the dr. just to get surgery time faster! i said im having extreme pain and my belly is goin to bust! she said oh well maybe he can order some pain med..but would not give me an appt to see him or talk to him.They still have not called me back yet! i feel like im dying and sooo tired and the pain is making me want tear someones head off! like the nurse..because its not them goin thru this so they could care less.. and put me on back burner..i knw my ob dr isnt aware it takin this long..he said on phone he tryin set it up for the next wk...that was a month ago...and nurse yesterday said we will try set it up before the next 3 months!!...anyhow my question is....are all of thee pains related?does this sound like a benign cyst or more like cnacerous symptoms? The dr thru me for a loop when he called that late or i would have asked him more questions now they wont let me talk to him and i cant take all this things goin haywire...help any suggestions what this is ?