The thought that you have to change the sheets and all that for him in inexcuseable. All hospital Er's are busy and I have been to many but never..... never has my mom or husband had to do a nurses or orderlie's work sorry about spelling, I'm with everyone, You need to be heard and heard loudly. Write the complaints, I might even call the local news if you don't mind the publicity, unless you think that will backfire and another hopsital wont want to treat you fearing you are a trouble maker. I just feel so bad for you I wish I could sign a petition for you or call for you or something to help you. My heart goes out to you. I know it is your husband who is sick but so often we forget the caregivers who have to deal with us on a daily basis. God Bless you and I really hope your husband appreciates what he has in you.
Please keep posting here and update us on what is happening. You are not alone and you never need to be. Best of Luck
XOXO Babs
http://www.hospitalcompare.hhs.gov/Hospital/Search/Welcome.asp?version=default&browser=IE%7C7%7CWindows+Vista&language=English&defaultstatus=0&pagelist=Home
Here is a place where you can compare hospitals. Yes, by all means file a formal complaint. I have been treated like that also and will never go back to that emergency room. Hugs, Teri
Thanks to all.
The offending facility is not Shands. We just had our first appt last week. They were wonderful.
as for the use of this particular ER, technically we dont have too. A few reasons we do is that my husband has several specialists who belong to a group who all go to this hospital.
We live out quite far in the country and the choices are slim. Saying that, however, we never see our pcp at the hospital anyway they use hospitalists. The specialists are the same and the docs in this group share electronic medical records with the hospital. In theory it would be the ideal situation.
The main reason I think is that my husband is always vomiting severely with diarrhea and the 20 min to the local hosp is enough. After the episodes we always talk about next time going all the way to the city, but then under acute cirucumstances it is not such a great idea.
Finally I am sure one reason is that I am so hopeful each time we go that with the history they will see and maybe even fix it this time. I know it is nieve, but it is what it is.
I'm sorry, I thought the care came from Shands. Anyway, the number listed is for all Hospitals and should be used. I hope this never happenes to anyone.....
Molly
Your right Sandee. In my state funding is part can be based on patient satisfaction. All hospitals and similar facilities actually do patient surveys via phone and mail.
Usually the hospital Administrator receives all complaints and in this case she should direct another letter of complaint to the Director of Emergency Medicine and the Medical Director. Three separate letters. All letters can be copies of the original with a cc on the bottom of the page listing to whom and where a copy has been sent.
Peace,
Tuck
Most hospitals lose valuable money when complaints are made against them. I have read where they get bonus' as well as the doctors when they have no complaints.
I would call the hospitial and find out who you need to see to file a complaint and do it. Also call the number Mollyrae gave you too.
We have to stand up for our rights or no one will.
Not only should you submit written complaints you should use a different ER. Your husband does not have to be treated in this atrociously rude manner.
I do not understand your statement that you have to go to this particular ER. My PCP admitting hospital is almost an hour from my home. When I have had an emergency (kidney stones recently) I go to our local hospital ER. They treat and diagnose me, in fact they have wanted to admit me on several occasions. So I don't understand why you feel you have to return to this particular ER.
Please let us know how you and your husband are doing. And as always good luck and take care.
Tuck
She was saying that they were referred to Shands.
Shands is not the hospitial that treated then in this manner. I have been to Shands and they do treat their Pts with respect in my experience.
Hello Llynn00 and welcome to the Pain Forum.
I am very sorry that this has happened to you over and over. I do not know anything about Shands Hospital but have located a phone # for you so that you may make a complaint.
Telling your Husband by writing "frequent fly-er" is inexcusable to say the least. The way you have been treated is truly to be desired. From what I have gathered, the Hospital is a teaching Hospital and have many young Doctors who are still in the teaching process themselves. I feel that they are in need of learning compassion and bedside manners and maybe by making a complaint, you might make them learn that they cannot treat a patient that way....no matter what the situation.
I really hope that you use this phone # and make that complaint. I feel that this is the only way to remedy the situation. I'm confident that the Doctors in question will be addressed. After all, it is a part of the learning process. Below is the complaint #.......
Good luck in the future, Please take care,
Mollyrae
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If your concern(s) cannot be resolved at this level, you may register a complaint with the Joint Commission on Accreditation of Healthcare Organizations by calling (630) 268-7400.
I would also suggest to bring the Morphine with you so these inconsiderate people can see that he is not abusing his medication and he is not there trying to get more medication.
I would make a formal complaint. Any doctor that would write that is an A**HOLE!
I hope your husband feels better soon and you find the problem. I think you are on the right track with him being on too many meds. Morphine makes me nauseous when they give it to me after surgery.
I really hope he feels better. I have been there, so I know what he is going through.
I am so sorry your husband and yourself are having such horrible experiences with the ER department. They do get alot of people looking for drugs and they tend to treat everyone this way. Did you know that any complaints goes against the hospital and the doctors themselves! I would start complaining big time. They do not want any complaints on file as it ruins their records. COMPLAIN and get the treatment you both deserve.
I live close to Gainesville and know that Shands is a great hospitial. I have been there and always been treated with respect. I would give it a try:)