Tibb-I am tryiing to picture in my mind what you are explaining and am still having a hard time. I think your best bet is to take a trip to your Doc and explain the whole thing to him or her and get feedback. If it is really hurting you that bad, maybe you did pull a tendon or a muscle when she was trying to pull you down on to the bed-I don't know. you may need an x-ray. But only your Doc is going to know that, sweetie. You better take the trip, if its hurting you that bad,
Best of luck.
Inga
Sorry i forgot to mention, the cord thing that sticks out when i lift my arm is alocated at my under-arm (arm pit)