I have recently remarried and my husband has three children(2 boys ages 3 and 7, and a daughter that is 8) who live with their mother in Florida. I also have one son(age 9) of my own. We are currently fighting for custody of the children, due to her moving from Texas and so we don't get to get them as often due to travel expenses. Here is my question. I'm our home we have three bedrooms. The two oldest boys share a room and his youngest son and his daughter share a room. ( each child has their own bed). The children have stated to us that at their mothers home there are three bedrooms. One for their mother, one for their grandparents, and one for their great grandmother. The children share rooms with the adults. The youngest son and daughter sleep with their mother, and the other son sleeps with his grandparents. Is this arrangement appropriate?? I know sometimes kids want to sleep with their parents on an occasional basis, but this is a nightly occurance. I don't believe it is right, and I believe our bedding arrangement is much more suitable? Should this be brought up when we go to court?