I have a 12 year old girl, she has always been a great kid, does very well in school, very popular, little kids love her, takes part in after school activities, has a big heart, always respectful and well mannered. This is her first year in highschool, one of her friends is heading down a totally different path & I'm hoping to get some advice on what to do.
She's known this girl since they were about 5, and this girl is almost 2 years older than my daughter. She is right into boys, all she cares about is boys right now & her mom doesn't approve, she's trying to date & have relationships (and probably have sec) but her mom isn't allowing it. She had threatened to move her daughter to a different province because of the attitude & rebellious behavior, my girl hears her friends side of the story. Its basically just "my mom hates me, that's why she doesn't let me have a boyfriend & is kicking me out, I didn't do anything". I told my daughter I'm pretty sure that's not the whole story & her friend has to be taking back & not listening for this to be happening. Now this girl is trying to persuade my daughter into skipping class.yesterday when she came home she told me.
I told my daughter she should try to find other friends, and she would be in BIG trouble if she ever skipped out. She said she knows that, & that's why she didn't do it, and why she told me. Its a turning point in my girls life, she's starting to have a life of her own. I'm so happy she's still honest with me & isn't following her friends footsteps but im just worried & don't know if I should let her keep hanging out with thus girl or not.