how do i prove to a lawyer this is very sxary and plus they have been dating 8 months and he sees them every other weekend for the last 6 months 9yo starting sleeping over after 2 months of dating yet mom goes home at night who would or why leave your child for overnight sleepovers is she crazy or maybe she is just going out sounds like he is the babysitter and i am concerned for my 7 yo twins to be sleeping with a strange girl dad said the boys are lying yet he turns off lights at betime and never checks help