i was seperated at the time from my legal husband due to emtional abuse,
when i met Bio dad i had not had children in 22 years and was told that i couldn't
guess what i did.
It did not work out in the 6 months we were together the last month of our realationship i found that i was
pregant,
I went home were my husband and i had currently resided to carry my son until he was born then give him up for adoption because i did not want him to have
the life i did comeing from a divorced family .
His bio father tried to get soul custody and was denied ,
his bio father also refused to give up rights so that the adoptive parents ( Doctor and Nurse ) could have him the day he was born it took nine days for him to concent at that point there was no way i could give him up.
since the last 10 years his bio father has not called or anything
I took him to met his bio grand mother at the age of 6 ,
My husband was furious I did not go again.
at this point I have now been married to my husband for 29 years he has always been there for my son
Recently I have become unemployed ( now 1 year ) in that year my husband has changed drasticley
( he has a history of emotional abuse with me years long ) He has also threaten to leave this nov. when our 5 year bankrupt is over ,
at this point i have 2 sons the other is 8 and we were blessed to have him a year and half after my 10 year old
so I guess my question really is , should i tell my 10 year old after I would get a divorce or now ,
and is it wrong for me to persue bio for finacial support . thanks hope you can understand it all.