why did your dr say you will never be able to concieve naturally? I have PCOS and I can concieve naturally if I tried long enough lost some weight maybe and got my PCOS under control. It is possible it happens everyday. unless you have something else wrong. And why did your dr tell you that you cant try IVF for 2 yrs? And why is your chances so low? I did IVF and my dr gave me good chances and I am pleased to say I am now pregnant from my first shot of IVF. hang in there stay possitive and like Dinahmite said you should get a second opinion from another dr. Good luck!
Don't lose hope. Have faith and you still can! Seek another doctor's opinion, maybe holistic route? But make sure it's a licensed MD but practices holisticlly. I'm seeing one here in IL and he was able to answer so many of my questions of imbalanced hormones.
Also, read up of how you can balance your hormones yourself, like diet is one and I recommend to read this book by Suzane Somers "Breakthrough"
http://www.amazon.com/Breakthrough-Eight-Wellness-Suzanne-Somers/dp/1400053277 If you can afford the book. If you can't, then borrow it from your local library or read it in a book store.
Best of luck to you!