Divastar96

[rnh3290]

Is it possible for a 17 year old girl to get pregnant if she has been taking pain meds (narcotics) for the almost 2 years now? Due to the fact that she's been on the pain meds for so long I would think, the meds would create some fertility problems, what do you think? Also she had been wearing a nuvring , but stop wearing it, so her next period only lasted 11/2 day, I think her period was interrupted because of her not using the ring as directed.Can anyone please comment?

[rnh3290]

haha i feel you on the dildo part girl haha. Why use that wen u can hae the real thing? But i know how u feel about the whole negativity. I believe that when others see that you are pregnant the first thing they wanna do is talk about you, or judge you. Whether its because your unmarried, or your under 21, they all want to be able to say sometthing negative about a wonderful thing! I dont NOT believe that babies are mistakes. Theyre just an "early gift". Its not like, oh yeah i got drunk and had a baby. Babys are NOT mistakes. And see the thing is, down here no one can be too negative cuz i can count at least 10 girls under 19 that are either pregnant right now or they already had their babies. And no one is married, AND the girls most likely got pregnant by a man in his 20s. haha so yeah no one can really talk much down here. But when people come at you cross eyed like that, tryna say **** to you and hurt you, you either gotta just ignore them ( cause your above that) or say in the most deadliest ( but polite) voice u can use "I dont think thats any of your concern." ( or anything else to that effect) That has really worked for me in the past girl.specially when u give them that ***** ***** look haha

[Monizie]

sorry...the rest of it got cut off...but yeah im just saying sometimes you have to take life as it give it to you...maybe thats the plan for your life aslong as you take care of yourself and do what you need to do to become successful a baby is not going to through all of that off. but i cry everyday cause im pregnant and the prob is NEGATIVE, NEGATIVE, NEGATIVE, PPL if 10  of those negative people said 10 positive things i would be just fine but im starting to not care what people have to say anymore because im going to do me regaurdless of what anyone thinks you know? my mom is very disappointed in me but why should she be so disappointed its not like i said mom im pregnant can you take care of my child?? you know, i take care of myself and will continue to take care of myself.

[Monizie]

yeah, well i just thought i would give you a little positive thought...about this whole situation because i understand where the ladies are coming from too about the whole strap it up and all of that but i know me and this might sound horrible...I DONT WANT TO FEEL A RUBBER D**K if thats the case I will go buy a D@MN dildoe<<<dont know if thats how you spell it but i also know my concequences of not wanting to feel that rubber BUT sometimes we have to just suck it up and take life as it comes..Belive me..i cry alot about being pregnant but if i had the ten ppl who are always saying negative things to me say positive things i wouldnt cry about the situation everyday...trust me i know..

[rnh3290]

i know how u feel, my mom is always acting like shed rather me have aids than be pregnant or something! i mean she acts like pregnancy is the death sentence. and i kno half of it is bcuz how many gurls around here have babies and are pregnant under the age of 19 and never finished school or did anything with their lifes. i under stand that, but still she dont need to be actin all ignoratna bout it u kno? so i really get how u feel about ur mother bein negative. its like its already ahppened so get over it right? and yeah it does help TREMENDOUSLY to have the babys father by ur side(or even just a caring bf). and i do know alot of girls who got pregnant to try and keep their bfs. that is the WRONG WAY TO GO! cuz then guys will start feeling resentful of u and the baby. your right, we need to def realize wen they dont want us, so we  wont be the ones crying our eyes out pregnant and alone.

[rnh3290]

i know how u feel, my mom is always acting like shed rather me have aids than be pregnant or something! i mean she acts like pregnancy is the death sentence. and i kno half of it is bcuz how many gurls around here have babies and are pregnant under the age of 19 and never finished school or did anything with their lifes. i under stand that, but still she dont need to be actin all ignoratna bout it u kno? so i really get how u feel about ur mother bein negative. its like its already ahppened so get over it right? and yeah it does help TREMENDOUSLY to have the babys father by ur side(or even just a caring bf). and i do know alot of girls who got pregnant to try and keep their bfs. that is the WRONG WAY TO GO! cuz then guys will start feeling resentful of u and the baby. your right, we need to def realize wen they dont want us, so we  wont be the ones crying our eyes out pregnant and alone.

[rnh3290]

i know how u feel, my mom is always acting like shed rather me have aids than be pregnant or something! i mean she acts like pregnancy is the death sentence. and i kno half of it is bcuz how many gurls around here have babies and are pregnant under the age of 19 and never finished school or did anything with their lifes. i under stand that, but still she dont need to be actin all ignoratna bout it u kno? so i really get how u feel about ur mother bein negative. its like its already ahppened so get over it right? and yeah it does help TREMENDOUSLY to have the babys father by ur side(or even just a caring bf). and i do know alot of girls who got pregnant to try and keep their bfs. that is the WRONG WAY TO GO! cuz then guys will start feeling resentful of u and the baby. your right, we need to def realize wen they dont want us, so we  wont be the ones crying our eyes out pregnant and alone.

[rnh3290]

i know how u feel, my mom is always acting like shed rather me have aids than be pregnant or something! i mean she acts like pregnancy is the death sentence. and i kno half of it is bcuz how many gurls around here have babies and are pregnant under the age of 19 and never finished school or did anything with their lifes. i under stand that, but still she dont need to be actin all ignoratna bout it u kno? so i really get how u feel about ur mother bein negative. its like its already ahppened so get over it right? and yeah it does help TREMENDOUSLY to have the babys father by ur side(or even just a caring bf). and i do know alot of girls who got pregnant to try and keep their bfs. that is the WRONG WAY TO GO! cuz then guys will start feeling resentful of u and the baby. your right, we need to def realize wen they dont want us, so we  wont be the ones crying our eyes out pregnant and alone.

[rnh3290]

i know how u feel, my mom is always acting like shed rather me have aids than be pregnant or something! i mean she acts like pregnancy is the death sentence. and i kno half of it is bcuz how many gurls around here have babies and are pregnant under the age of 19 and never finished school or did anything with their lifes. i under stand that, but still she dont need to be actin all ignoratna bout it u kno? so i really get how u feel about ur mother bein negative. its like its already ahppened so get over it right? and yeah it does help TREMENDOUSLY to have the babys father by ur side(or even just a caring bf). and i do know alot of girls who got pregnant to try and keep their bfs. that is the WRONG WAY TO GO! cuz then guys will start feeling resentful of u and the baby. your right, we need to def realize wen they dont want us, so we  wont be the ones crying our eyes out pregnant and alone.

[Monizie]

BUT....i guess i do live with my bf we are very happy, we have our own car, and hes excited. So i guess having your bf or whatever there plays a big role to but we as women need to also realize we dont need men when they dont want or need us..back.

[Monizie]

I just want to correct a few things and im not saying go out and get pregnant...But if it does happend dont call it an accident, mistake any of that just love it and dont let anyone make you feel you cant party anymore and go out and have fun because babies dont suck all of the life out of life. Im sure if you were pregnant your mother would have came around and wanted too take your baby all the time...BUT glad your not pregnant but dont feel like you CANT do ANYTHING anymore if you are...ttyl
I guess i just feel this way because im 18 and pregnant and my mom thinks im the worst person and she tries to speak all of the negatives instead of postives and it pisses me off to see anyone say anything about a baby stopping your life!! idk maybe my mom has just made me this angry about this kind of situation...

[rnh3290]

aww thanks! hell im 4 sure gonna remember all this lol. **** i may scare mysefl outta havin sex altogether!  man its like i dodged a bullet! this lil girl caught my bullet tho. shes 14 and shes 1 month pregnant, and all i can think is im glad it aint ME! lol sounds mean but watever yo lol

[girl0319]

Hey! Im glad to see everything turned out good!! Just remember these scary moments and make sure they dont happen again! Lol.. Well good luck with everything!!

[chitten]

Glad you seem to have your head straight now

When my partner and i split up after 3 years he slept around and gave me a std scare so it is best to be wary of everyone and always use barrier protection, not just with one night stands!!

[rnh3290]

thanks! I im really happy that i can go out and have fun and not worry about watching wat i do in case it hurts the baby. but i use the nuva ring, which is better than the pill if u wear it right. and ima have to start wearing it and being extra careful cuz i dont wanna be pregnant right now. it took alot for me 2 realize that im way to young and itd be real selfish to try and get pregnant, cuz that baby wouldnt have the life it deserves right now. ima wait until after im 21 to get pregnant( that way i can go out and drink and party first lol) oh and trust me i will go and get checked soon and ima start makin every guy NO MATTER WHO THEY ARE wear condoms. im not tryna get a disease either

[chitten]

Well i really am glad you can now enjoy your youth and live for you!! At least for the next few years!!

Make sure you stick to that protection promise - dont JUST rely on the pill - It didnt work for me (im 15 weeks pregnant at 20 and still scared as to how i'l cope) and even if it does work for you it cant protect against Aids and HIV.

[rnh3290]

IM NOT PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im most def gona start protectin myself alot more easier, better yet ima just stay abstinate til i finish high school. that was kinda scary AND confusing i dont wanna go thru that anymore! i actually got my period on my bday and my mom was like thats a goood bday present haha. soon as i saw the blood i ran upstairs and jumped on my mom and told her, we were soo happy lol. its weird tho how happy i was considering that i felt like i wanted to have a baby. i guess it was just all the pressure from seeing so many other gurls make it look easy and fun. but thanks girls sooo much for ur support and advice and all your help! i dont know how i woulda got thru any of this without you guys helping me! specially girl0319 and daisy444

[rnh3290]

i kno i toook CCBC classes but its all so pricey and the boooks are too much money

[heatherlynn22]

you can go to college. online classes can be really flexible around your schedule. i'm not taking them. (i've already been informed i'm to be a stay at home mom by the df....which i don't care cause that's what i want anyways. lol) but the df is. he's a marine working 5-6 days a week from 5 am till sometimes 5 or 6pm. he does his work for 1-2 hours each night and only has to actually log on 3 days. (but he's very thorough about everything and logs on everynight mon-fri) i know it's not a traditional school but it'd be a way for you to get your degree while taking care of the rugrats. (and you wouldn't have to wait for years to actually go! and it doesn't cost nearly as much as a normal university would)

[evthing4reason]

let us know

[rnh3290]

thanks, the big day is commin up, and im anxious as hell. thanks 4 all ur advice and support. and ima just cross my fingers and watever god want to happen will happen. my luck mite have ran out. thanks everyone

[daisy444]

Well if you get a positive result...It's probably accurate. It's very unlikely to get a positive pregnancy test unless you are pregnant. And if it comes up negative I would still wait a few weeks and test again. It may be too soon. I found out I was pregnant when I was only 3 weeks along. I had been waking up with really bad headaches every morning for about 2 weeks so I finally took a few home preg. tests and they were all positive.
Until you know FOR SURE......be careful. I would suggest not taking any more pills and quit smoking and stuff if you do. The first few weeks of pregnancy and most crucial to baby's development. So be safe. && If you are pregnant, I hope you act responsibly and do everything you can for this baby. Try to get a part time job, open up a savings account and save what you can. Baby's aren't cheap. Make sure you take care of yourself and make healthy decisions, cus the smallest mistake can harm your baby. And mostly.......FINISH SCHOOL!!!!  It might be hard, but it's the best thing you can do for you and your child. &&& I really hope you have some sort of insurance if you are pregnant....

GOOD LUCK and let us know what happens.

[rnh3290]

first i wanna just say thank you, for telling me the truth fa real. cuz you dont even know how confused i am. i never thuoght i could be swayed but slowly im startin to panic and hope that im not. but wat im scared is is that this may be it! i mean your luck has to run out sometime. and i kept testing it and testing it sayin God loves me 2 much 2 allow me to get pregnant right now.thats wat it looked like to me! i guess a part of me is still gonna keep its fingers cross that im pregnant. well i find out this friday at lifelines. is it too early? i mean i had sex on valentines day and then this comming friday the lady scheduled me pregnancy test appt.( its urine) is it too early to be taking a pregnancy test? i started ovulating on the 17th. and the day after valentines day the lady said the sperm was gona live in my body for a few more days and wen i ovulated thats wen tehyd be fertilized if they werent already by then ( since ovualtin was only a few days away) and ever since tha day i had sex my boobs have been gettin sorer which each day. i kno my mom is takin me to get a blood test this comming weekend, but is whatever result thats comes out gonna be accurate? (the urine test)

[daisy444]

I hope you really have a change of mind and be more careful if you aren't already pregnant. Forget what your girls say, I'm telling you straight up....being pregnant isn't all it's cracked up to be. First of all, the first 3 months atleast are HELL!!!! I couldn't get out of bed at all. All I did was puke. non stop. All day, Everyday! I barely got any sleep because I woke up every hour to puke. It was stressful. I've lost almost all my friends....people who were so excited and said they'd be here no matter what never come around anymore. Plus your body changes. I mean.....I wasn't quite done being sexy yet, ya know. But who knows what I'm gonna look like after I have my baby.
Don't get me wrong, pregnancy can be a beautiful thing! Once I got over the morning sickness, and I started feeling my baby move....it's incredible. But Don't you want a good guy who loves you to be there throughout the whole thing. Someone who can go with you to all your doctor appointments and put his hand on your belly to feel your baby kick for the first time. That for me is the most beautiful part......having my child's father with me everyday to experiance the pregnancy right along with me. Seeing his eyes get watery when I got my first ultrasound, & him kissing my belly and talking to our son. Trust me, you will want that. Pregnancy can be EXTREMELY lonely. When I first got pregnant my boyfriend didn't seemed too thrilled and wasn't intrested in even talking about the baby. It broke my heart. I just wanted someone to be happy with me.  It finally hit him when he came with me to one of my ultrasounds, and he finally got excited.
I'm just saying......if you are pregnant right now. Then of course, be happy and make the best out of it. But if not.....breath a sigh of relief because it is best for you and your future child that you wait until you both can be given everything you deserve.
Don't let your little friends kid you....they wish they would have waited. It kills them that they can't go to anymore parties or do what there other friends are doing.

[rnh3290]

il b sure 2 do that