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Pi$$ed right now!! VENT!!!!!
As you ladies may know it is very hard to sleep during your final days of pregnancy. BTW I'm 39+3. My boyfriend works 4:30pm-2am. According to him this is the "night shift." What ticks me off is when he gets home he stays up all night until about 8 or 9 am and then goes to sleep then wakes up at 3:30pm to leave the house at 4 for work. It's the dumbest schedule in the world to me. He does nothing else and if you wake him up at noon or something he claims he is tired cuz he worked all night!! My thing is "noooooo your tired cuz your childish a$$ stayed up all night to play games and watch tv". Mind you he is 32 years old!!!! This is why I'm sooooo pi$$ed off!!! I was sleeping sound finally and Mr. Childish comes in makes the most noise and now I can't get back to sleep. Like wtf!!!! I'm so tired of his childish crap!!! He needs to grow up and I'm tired of when I need him he is asleep and doesn't hear the phone ring or some other lame excuse! His thing is "man, my momma never even woke me up..." Oh I'm sorry your mother screwed you up sir! But your a grown a$$ man with responsibilities! Stop pleading to me about what your mommy did and grow up!!!!!! Sorry! Had to get the off my chest really bad!!!!!!!!!!
Wow! I really didnt full grown man could act that way!!! Ive treatned my hubby to chuck the ps3 out so many times.....we payed for it so it hurts me to actually break it lol so ove hidden all the cords on him for a week. He now does most of the chores considering im suppose to be on bed rest lol if my hubby acted that way i think i wpuld of kick him out ages ago! I told my hubby that im going to raise one baby not two lol but i must say im glad to have him. He can act childish at times but he always makes me laugh and when it comes down to responsibilities hes very serioius and mature about it. But my mom always told me you gotta raise ur hubby early on lol so i started te moment we agreed to make our relationship official. I dodnt want to play around for years. I was 17 going on 18 and i knew what i wanted and where i wanted to ho in life and i wasnt ready to change that for a low life. So i got my man, got married and having our first baby almost five yrs later :)
It was really easy for me to leave i am doing everything anyway i don't wanna raise two kids when I'm only supposed to be raising one :) so i kicked his a.s.s out he doesn't deserve me or the baby if he is gonna act that way but now he is p.i.s.s.e.d cause i have guy friends who r hitting on me i think its funny he can't grow up and I'm like ok cool when u sign off ur rights u can exit my life for good :)
Wow Mommy24721! I thought about having him sign his rights over but I don't wanna let him off that easy in a sense. But I'm tired of him buying the new Jordans every check he gets but doesn't think buying her crib or some diapers is necessary until she gets here. Ugh! I'm so ready to move out and be in a happy place!
I left my babies dad for the same s.h.i.t I work from 3pm to 11pm he works from 10pm to 7am and he stayed up till i woke up for work nd was noisy as hell the whole time i finally had enough he wouldn't buy things for the kid nd wouldn't do anything but play games and work and only spent his money on toys nd s.h.i.t so I left I'm like yup u can't grow up I'm done see ya now I don't let him even go to the appointments with me he is signing off his rights when the baby is born
I'm so glad I'm not the only one going through this!!! I'm a breath away from leaving him. I'm not going to raise a grown man and my baby girl! That was his mother's job! When I get back on my feet I'm moving out and he will be old news! Tired of this!
You know accidents can happen while he's at work. Maybe slightly trip with some water. Or you were cleaning and you accidentally dropped it. I hate video games and my husband knows this we have an Xbox but he knows his responsibilities comes first. He knows that accidents happen. My husband also has the same schedule he works from 4 to 2am he gets home at 2:30am eats a snack takes a shower and gets in the bed. Wakes up around 9 to 10am we get what ever needs to be done and we spend some time together playing with our 20 month old outside or whatever he gets ready for work and it starts all over again. Once that baby gets here oh he will have a rude awakening and will really know what being tired means. If I were you I would put a stop to this childish crap now. Because for the 1st 6 weeks he's going to have to do most of the work until your released from the doctor.
This reminds me of a song by k.michelle "can't raise a man" lol. I feel yalls pain. I actually left my man the other night because of this. He couldn't stand the thought of loosing me or his unborn child so he is straightened up a bit.bit.
My boyfriend used to be like that. His mom bought h.his playstation...well actually it came free with a tv they bought. So she gave me premission to break it lol so I did one day when I had enough. He got over it eventually. We still have xbox but he don't play that much now...guess he got.the point haha I wouldn't recommend breaking it though lol just thought I'd share my story :)
I'm sorry, but what is wrong with men these days? Did their moms baby them that much? Mine acts like a kid too and it's ridiculous. I understand that having a baby on the way is stressful for them too, but they don't need to act this way. Ugh. If I end up having I boy, I'm raising him right. And if I find out he ever treats a girl this way, well, you're never too old for a whooping lmao
Girl you are so not alone, mine is awful too, he leaves home at 1:30 pm to be at work that starts at 3 because its an hour away and gets off at 11 pm gets home at 12 am and chooses to play games and mess around and be super loud until 3 or 4 then sleep until 11 or 12. While I work during the day, go to my college classes and take care of the house as well as my TWO sons (they are one and two)
I have the same problem! My bf works 330-2am and then is up until 7 am and sleeps until he absolutely has to get up. It's like I never see him and we live together. Then he gets mad when I don't stay up with him...sorry I nanny during the day and also have a night job on top of being 6 months pregnant.
Well, he can take care of the baby when he gets home from work and let you sleep all night then...
He woke you up, so make lots of noise and wake his a$$ up and see how he likes it! Then maybe he will learn to be quiet when he comes in at 2am. Like holly crap just cuz he is just getting off work doesn't mean the whole house is up too.
I'm still freaking awake!!! I can't get back to sleep! I've been up since 5:07am and now it's 7:15!!! Ugh!
Omg!!!!! Mine too!!!!! I just feel like I'm in the dumbest relationship ever!!! We don't spend time together, we don't have sex, you don't clean, you won't even take care of me! If my back hurts or my feet hurt he just looks and me and says "well go lay down". I sleep alone in my bed and he sleeps on the sofa. I'm so over this! I'm at the point where I'm just like let's agree to parent our daughter and leave this relationship alone. I don't need this crap!
I thought I was the only one. My boyfriend leaves for work at 4 and doesn't get home til 4. And he stays up playing Xbox until 7am then sleeps until 345pm and then leaves...he doesn't see that he needs to spend time with me or ill leave his a$$. Mine won't clean help out or when bills come he complains he's broke when he makes over $1000 I'm like really
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