When to test for pregnancy when pregnancy test have failed you before.

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I have had a bad past with pregnancy test's. When I got pregnant at 17 it took three pregnancy test that said negative, got sick with some kind of virus and the doctor's office took a urine sample and told me I was pregnant, later learned I was around three months pregnant. The second pregnancy turned out to be a misscarrige but wouldn't show on a pregnancy test till I was 8 week's pregnant. Third pregnancy ended in a tubal, found out by a postive pregnacy test at 6wks. Didn't find out it was a tubal till the doc had a opening for me which was at 10 wks. Now I was in alot of pain the the last pregnancy and Really don't want to do that again. Im on Fertibella to help out on having a better pregnancy, But My period would and is due on the 22nd this month, so should I test on that day, or if I get my period like I did with the first and last pregnancy, when is a right time to test where it will show up positive. Now I know that getting a blood test would for sure tell but at this moment my doc is not avilible for another three months, so Im super concerned on when I should take one.

FreshLove · Answer

I realize that you may be in pain emotionally, but mybaby2 was not rude or insensitive. She said she had 5 PREGNANCIES, not KIDS. You've had 3 pregnancies and no kids-- there's a difference between the two! While she may have anywhere from 0 to 5 kids, you should make sure before going on such a rude rant like that. Do you even know if she's on welfare?!? Or how old she is??? Do you realize that by making such assumptions and being so negative you might actually be hurting her!?!? 

I really feel sorry for people like you who are so quick to assume, judge others, and be close minded. I hope your outlook on life changes to a happier, more accepting one because it does make life easier. Best of Luck

SandyMcDowell · Answer

Hay girl, I finally got my period after being two day's late. A bit moody due to thease fertility pills not working as I would have wanted them to. Between that want watching girls get pregnant over and over when i can't have one healthy pregnancy, or a baby. just fusterated!

SandyMcDowell · Answer

5 kid's...Well you don't want my oppinion on your situation cause it aint pretty. I think people like you are overly greedy. People who have more than two is just too many. It's never a happy thought when some girl younger than me get's on here rejoycing about their handful of kids, expecially when I can't even have one. ty for your comment, but you just made my day incredibly dooming. It's people like you who live off the system cause they can't afford all thier children or themself, and they wont even get fixed. It's people who know that they can't afford all thier children but yet keep them all insted of allowing them to be adopted out to a family who can't have children. See that's it I don't get why God keep's giving people all thease kid's and wont give people who really would give their kid everything, and have everything to give, well people like that dont get one.

mybaby2 · Answer

This is my 5th pregnancy and i have only seen a positive hpt once.  Don't know if i just don't know what i'm doing or what the deal is but ive always had to go in for blood tests.

SandyMcDowell · Answer

Thank You Jamie. Im sorry I havn't been logged in for so long. That sound's like good planning to me. I will keep you posted. Day late now!

jamie4321 · Answer

i took one with my son 2 day after my miss cycle and got my bfp.but a friend of mine her bfp would never show till the following month of her miss cycle.she test right after her miss cycle and it would be neg.but the 1st of the follow month it would be bfp.so i would try 2 days after your miss cycle if nothen then u can test once a week.best of luck 2 u.hope this helps.