guilt..

[babygirl5197]

My babys father mother making me feel guilty for wanting to keep the baby away from him and hes family.. But is it wrong that i dont want my son around druggies.. I mean yes i smoked Marijuana alot before i got pregnant.. But that was pretty much it.. Im 15 weeks. And the babys father hasnt even made an effort to see how the boy is doing.. I just dont know what to tell her anymore..

[babygirl5197]

Exactly. He tells me hes working but everybody tells me hes still using and dealing. I dont want my son thinking thats ok.. I plan to give him my moms maiden last name in case he tries partying  up with my real father whose always a cowardly piece of ****

[britt423]

I went through the same thing. Im keeping my baby away from them, I took the safe route and decided not to tell them that they wont see my baby. Im gonna give her my last name so he doesnt have rights to her. I cant collect child support anyways. He's a drug user, with tattoos on his face.. He would never be able to get a job, so there is no harm done. I want my baby to grow up learning the right way to live. I want her to see healthy relationships so she'll know how she needs to be treated one day. I want her to stay away from drugs... A piece of **** father will just get in the way and ruin all her chances of having a great life.

[babygirl5197]

I can only work by cleaning and babysitting other kids.. And i make money and have saved alot... I just cant stand the thought of me not having my son..

[babygirl5197]

They keep telling me when hes born they're gunna take him away from me.. Im turning 17 in a couple weeks and ive gotten almost everything i need for my son except for hes cloths.. Im trying to be a good mom for my son.. Im just so scared. I dont want to loose the one little beautiful creation inside me gone... Can they really take him , since the father is 19 and working?

[kouklaxo]

No you're not in the wrong, you're very right for keeping the baby away, just ignore her. And if she doesnt stop its hurassment, because you dont want the baby around that.

[Aly215]

Just remember the well being of your chikd comes first ...it doesnt matter whose feelings get hurt your baby comes first!!