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venting! very sad!
Sorry ladies but I feel very very sad my hubby is out of town working and he got mad at me for the 1st time and clicked on me!!!! Because i went out to have lunch with a GAY guy friend. And spent some money for myslef. On lunch. And so I always have to much pride n myself when it comes to Men. So I havnt called him.back or txted neither has he? Was I wrong to go out ? I feel like I did a mistake but its Cuz I'm bored here n the house and another thing we r staying at a Friend house but he said it looked bad for me leaving n that he didn't want a girlfriend like that has no respect for the home. N clicked! I feel horrible and known I made a mistake. But what should I do. I actually feel alone and feel like he is going to leave me I'm 32 weeks and would hate to do this alone and plus we r moving to my moms but I feel like hes gona come back from his work trip n tell me go by ur self! What do u think?
Todo te va salir Bien te puse como Amiga me puedes escribir quando quieres y felicidades en la nina quando la vas a tener I'm having a girl on October 8
Oi muchas gracias para clarificar ESO por q pues es Mi primer hombre de es de mexico y de rancho y q me a juntado con Y so escuhaba q eran celoso pero no creir tanto.. Y q nos quieran tanto... Pero esta bien ESO pues ojala q me llama manana y esta calmado.. Y todo sale bien.
Si llo te entiendo oye los hombres son asi ello pueden Acer lo Que le Dan la gana pero las mujeres estan amaradas. Oye eso son celos que tiene el asi es mi esposo y somos cubanos nica llo estube con un Mexican y son Bien celoso pero aman a las mujeres no te estreses tranquila
Thank u u had put some of my MInD at ease and I hope thats all it is! But I understand I wouldn't like it if I'm miles away n he goes out to eat with a lesbian friend but just that he went prolly tho idk on more jealous now Cuz preg lol
@gabiota well if u know the men from mexico that r from the ranchos siempre quiern q los mujeres estan en la casa! And that's what I think he follows but since I'm born nd raise here I think diff.. Like i can still go out even with a gay friend n hang out! N still be with my bd and my unborn child...
Guys are guys remember he isn't going to leave u I promise he is just upset for the move u made
Well. I only have that gay friend that I talked to here Cuz I just met him about 2,months ago Cuz I started workin and worked with him for abit but now I quit Cuz we r moving n I'm due soon and I don't have no friends here cuz we moved here from Cali. So like I still don't go out and explore this town Cuz well i don't know anybody to well. And alllll my friend are in Cali
O mama u should be happy that at least u can go out at time my husband is so jealous I can't ever go out especially with a guy even if he is gay. I'm 36 weeks pregnant and always in the house I go out with him he tells me that the girl belongs in the house and the guy in the streets. It gets boring but at the same time I like it because I could tell he love me. That what he told u he didn't mean it. It just hurts him that u don't listen to him and he is working he is probably jealous remember ur his unborn childs mom good luck and in the morning text him good morning hope u slept good don't say sorry or nothing like that
I'm pretty sure he was mostly upset about it being a guy . I have two gay friends and my boyfriends hated how close we were . I'm sure they just have trouble dealing with it like we would if it was some girl they went out with . he really needs to learn to trust you and respect what friends you have just like you have to with him . I would mostly focus on that when you talk to him a again cus that's what it seems like he's having a problem with .
Well 1,st thank u for listening to me and for ur advice! I feel so alone and sad... Can't even sleep. Well its to late for me to text him he's prolly sleeping... N wakes up early for work but yeah I'll text him like a good mornimg and sorry n that I will stay home for the rest of the week... N see where it goes from there. But damn like it just kills me inside how he said I don't want a girlfriend like this! N clicked like daaammn what is he thinkn! Or wanting to sayy?
I kniwbyou don't wanna text him first and apologize for something you don't feel you did wrong . but it will help out with your situation . I'm the same way if he's mad and doesn't call or text me then we just won't talk , he has to come home after work anyways so he's going to have to talk to me eventually. I would at least text him goodnight and that you love him if he doesn't reply he's probably still mad . and if you want wait til the morning and see if he texts you if he doesn't then text him and let him know how you're feeling he really can't stay mad at you for this . its not that big of a deal ! I mean your friend isn't even worried about you leaving and its her house , then he shouldn't either . I'm sire it'll work out he can't be so uptight like that , because all you guys will have are problems .
Yes he is the baby daddy. And yeah I try to tell him like I just feel a bugg to her but not sure if I am so I rather just keepnsome distance uknow... And u think i should?,text him.. If he didn't text me tomorw n the morning like he always does it will be a sign for me that he is still mad and I guess I will apologize.. To him. But I'm scared he will come back n go off on me And who knows what would happen I'm just scared of him leaving me !!
Not in a rude way , but is he the bbys father ? Because if he is and hell leave for something so childish as that then that just shows that hes not ready for such a big responsibility . and if he isn't the father, when he got with you he know that their was a baby on the way at the moment he took on all the responsibility for you and your baby . so to think oh who would want a pregnant woman yeah its true it runs through my mind at times to when me and my bf argue . but when someone loves you they love you and everything you come with which is your baby . I don't think hell leave and I understand what you mean on how you don't wanna bug her she has her own things she may want to do and being pregnant sometimes she just might want to be alone . maybe you should call him or send him a text let him know that you're sorry for upsetting him . but also explain how you need time out the house yourself . he gets to get away for awhile, you don't ! You're stuck at home all the time
But I feel really worried that he is super mad and will leave me!!! For that? By any who who would want a preg girl anyways ukno.. So its like I can't even talk to guys or get with anyone! And I wouldn't even do that I love him and my unborn child and wouldn't want to do that.
Yes that what I think he was trying to tell me but I even told the girl I was going out for a lil bit with a GAy Guy friend n she's was fine with it. I also make times in the evenings to sit and chat with her and play with her infant. He's such a cutie but I was going to go tomrow again with him for lunch but I guess I won't. N the girl we r both pregnant and just due 5 days apart... But I just feel like weird with her Cuz I known her for a short while so itry not to be around the kitchen or living room as much Cuz I feel like a bother to her so instay in the bedroom but not sure if its too much of bad respect that I do? But in just like don't want to make her that I bother uknow....
I think he's more worried about how you look leaving the house with another guy picking you up ! As long as your friend is okay with you going and you do it respectfully and not every day in and out constantly or coming home late then he shouldn't worry at all .
Thanks girls it means so much I'm trying to hold my tears! Inn. But u think so?,I should be worry about him far away having my Car! And me being stuck here. And well he said it was wrong for me leaving that house Cuz its not our home its our friends home that letting us stay with them and it's me n his wife here with her infant but like I was hungry n didn't want to cook I still feel weird cooking n her home. So I went... But idk he's never gotten mad at me before like this?! But I still can't belive he said I don't want a girlfriend without respecting the home we r staying at looks bad?
I don't think you did wrong by going out . he may feel insecure about it cus of it being another guy. Even tho he was gay he doesn't know that and may not believe it . but he needs to learn to trust you . being pregnant you are limited to going out and doing certain things so a simple lunch date wasn't at all bad for you . he needs to understand that I does get boring staying home all day , it gets miserable . but I do think he is definitely blowing this out of proportion saying you have no respect . he can't keep you home all day every day , you're going to want to get out once Ina while whether it be with friends or your bf. Seems like he just wants you to stay and take care of the bby and nothing else . which will only get worse once your bby comes . you guys should sit down and really talk about it
Ummm I think it's really silly that he would get upset over you spending money to EAT lunch with a GAY guy... First off, you need to eat. Second, it's not like the guy would sex ya. Lmao. Im sorry but I really don't see what he is upset about...
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