Remember it takes two to make a relationship work. You are not a failure, and in my eyes are an amazing woman. You are going to be an amazing mommy and role modle for your little girl. She has such a strong mommy and kind mommy to take care of her. Wishing you all tge best!
Thank you so much for the replies. It makes me feel a lot better in knowing that I am not thinking hormonally or irrationally in not wanting him there. It's the most confusing time of my life. I want to always do right by Kayla, but I don't feel as though this is wronging her in any way by not sharing my delivery with her Dad.
I have feelings of shame in that my family didn't work out, and feel somewhat of a guilt, but than also feel like the day he choose to leave, and not bother communicating, put the decision up to me on whom I want to share this special moment with.
Thanks for the support in this. It means a lot to have other opinions backing mine, when he is chastising me for this one.
Since he wasn't there during the pregnancy I would say no he can see the baby after!
I find it hilarious that hes calling YOU the selfish one after HE dipped and did his own thing. You have to give up so much for this baby, don't let him bully you. You get to decide who is in the room. If I were you I wouldn't even call him until after the baby is born.
Robbing him if his rights as a father? Really? He should've manned up and been there for you THE WHOLE TIME. Not all of the sudden start ordering you and telling you hes going to be in there. No. He doesn't have that right. If you don't want him in there tell him no and tell the nurses and doctors he's not welcome