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9062499 tn?1426957962

lost my baby :(

So i posted yesterday complaining about  tightening of my stomach and lower back pain at the same time. Ended up going to hospital to get myself checked. The Dr did a scan to c what was going on . There were about 6 doctors in the same room so thats When I thought something is not right.  What I found out was they couldnt find the heartbeat at 38 weeks so sadly I lost my little angel :(  I couldnt stop crying n the Dr was also in tears who did the scan.
Eventho the Dr was 100percent about the heartbeat i still requested for another scan for my satisfaction n need to go in again  tomorrow if the result is still the same they will induce me to bring on labor.  
Plz ladies Take my advice if u r concerned about anything dont leave it for too long get urself checked ASAP. Otherwise u will lose your bundle of joy just like iv done. My prayers r with all u mommies hope u all have healthy babies.
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Im so sorry for your loss: ( i wish there were words to say. Prayers for you and your family.
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8582080 tn?1436383174
I am so sorry for your loss may God be with you and your family :(.....
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7979418 tn?1405680665
I am so sorry I can't imagine what you use must be going through.  It has been almost 6 yes old since my son was born & I can remember I went to the hospital because my son was cutting off the blood supply to my heart & I kept passing out. While I was there a 15 yr. girl came in & she was 40 weeks  & had not felt her baby move in 3 days. They put her right next to me while they did the scan & I can remember looking at the dr. & he wouldn't look at her & his face turned red & he had tears in his eyes when he told her that her baby had no heart beat. I will never in a million yrs forget those cries & screams. I still carry that day in my heart & mind & will for the rest of my life & think it's why I am always making sure my baby is moving. Of course I could never know what your going through & I wish I had those magic words to say to you that would make it all better but I dont. All I can do is say how sorry I am & you are in my thoughts.
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9764007 tn?1405807828
I will keep you in my prayers..
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9764007 tn?1405807828
Omg.. I can't stop crying this is one of the worst feelings a mother could ever go through losing a child... I'm so sorry this happened to you so late in your pregnancy I thought when you past 20 weeks you out the woods of losing your baby.. I'm so devastated for you an your family.. please try and be strong thats what your baby would want.. there is no words or anything I or anyone can say to make you feel different at this very difficult time in your life. Just pray and say an believe you did nothing wrong and know none of this was your fault because it wasn't.. you have no control on how God works.. it's not your fault please know that..
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Avatar universal
God bless you mama my prayers for you . God loves you and you are not alone . Hopefully you get pregnant again . Be strong you can do it .  I'm sorry to hear that.  :( but soon the sun will shine over your eyes . God bless you
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