porn

[bgboop14]

Im six week pregnant with my first baby, and I just caught my husband watching porn. Yea my sex drive hasn't been all there, but as far as I know last night was the only night I wasnt comitted. I thought we were happy. What should I do?

[sprmom87]

Mine watches porn snd although I find it irritating I also understand that he wants it more than I can give it to him, especially now that I am on bed rest. As long as the kids don't stumble onto it and it's not an interference and I don't have to hear about what stunts he saw and wants to try, then I just ignore it.

[knufrio]

I'm with you thorarb. Porn is not a big deal as long as he still come to you when you want it thats all that should matter. Most men do watch porn they just hide it. Doesn't mean he's unhappy at all

[bgboop14]

The thing with me is that he knows how strongly I feel about it. We've been together 9years and it was only an issue once. And it never happend again. I know "sex isn't everything but it is something" and I've been doing my part as a wife. Im very religious and Im very hurt by this. One night and this happens. I mean whats to say when I get bigger he's not gonna cheat. Or if in the future my baby is sick and I sleep in the next room. He wont feel an urge and fill it somewhere else?

[thorarb]

Dont fret on it. Just because he is watching porn does not mean he wants to sleep with someone else. Men tend to be way more sexual than women are. I cant remember the exact stats on how often sex actually crosses a man's mind versus a woman's. Him watching porn has nothing to do with whether or not he is satisfied with you. Im willing to bet that he has been watching porn this whole time and you just hadnt seen it. I honestly dont know how anyone masturbates satisfactorily without some porn, I dont lmao!

If this is a huge concern to you then let him know how it makes you feel. But have an open mind to his feelings too. Maybe you can compromise? Ive made solo videos and my husband and I even made one together. Ive caught him watching those more often than he does other porn. Lol

[bgboop14]

He is a truck driver, local now. And when he was on the road I would send him pictures which he has saved. That was our compromise so that he wouldn't be tempted yo watch it.he's home now and he gets it in everyday some days more than once excuse me for being shocked and hurt by my curtent situation.

[mckaylas_momma1018]

Just because he watches porn does not mean he isn't committed.... I would quote frankly be concerned with a man who does NOT watch porn... I even watch porn... my husband watches it. .. it doesn't mean in the slightest bit that either of us are stepping outside of our marriage to fulfill the sexual need elsewhere... I have been put on complete pelvic rest several times... at 19 weeks for 1 week, at 23 weeks for 1 week, weeks 24-36, im now 37w4d and have been the last 7 days... all that combined is a long time to not have sex...