@ AnnieBrooke
Lol, my cousin sent a text asking me right after because she was trying to whisper it but i didn't hear. I too did what you suggested, got married at court house but it was before we knew. Actual ceremony was later this summer in July and i found out June 2nd I was 6 weeks already. I was bloated compared to how i was during my visit for Christmas lol.
I think its sweet u and ur bump walking down the isle :) :)
Dametrice, they might not have known at the time but they certainly figured it out six months later. lol
My husband and I got married this past summer. I'd lost a baby at 11 weeks two weeks before he officially proposed, and was 8 weeks along when we married six months later. Four weeks after the wedding I lost that baby too. I'm glad we went through with our wedding plans instead of delaying. Planning a wedding is hard enough without having to do it twice. Our 3-year-old son was the perfect little ring bearer and we were proud and excited to share our union with friends and family.
I get that seven months would be different... but I'd still go for it if you have plans in place, deposits down, invitations or save-the-dates out to guests. If you only have a date chosen and nothing set in stone, it wouldn't be so hard to reschedule if you want to.
My fiancé and got engaged in Dec. I already had my dress and planned and booked things...and in may I get pregnant lol I believe we're still keeping our 10-31-15 date tho.
By the way we had already gotten married at court house and did a formal one later after we traveled back home so family and friends could witness.
Try buying a dress and planning a wedding date and not only do your mom have to loosen the dress but you split it at the reception on one side because you were three months pregnant and it wasnt planned lol.
Looking at our pictures, my husband and i said how could people not know lol. We were embarrassed so we were secretive but i know they knew. Even i could see it through the photos lol.
My fiance and I were talking about getting married before we found out we were pregnant. We had planned on a New Years wedding...well, wouldn't luck have it that I'm due New Years day!!! Lol. So we have to change plans and we'll likely get married next year if we want to stick to the new years date. I just didnt feel like planning everything then either A) be horribly uncomfortable and huge on our special day or B) have yhe baby before the wedding and have to reschedule everything anyways.
Ive been engagd for 5 years we finally Set a date, (aug 17th) but now I turn up pregnant.. and im due july 12th. So... we are changing our plans, moving up all our dates (I think the caterers hate me lol) bit we are gonna make it work. Ill have a bump but who cares. Its still my day, a if people want to judge then they can not come
I am almost 8 weeks and my boyfriend and i talk about getting married. Before i was pregnant we discussed getting married. Just as someone explained i think we'll do something very small abd celebrate with a wedding after the baby :)
I was 7 mos preg with our first at our wedding! We kept it small and enjoyed our time with close friends and family
Some options:
Get married in 6 months and wear a maternity bridal dress and look everyone in the eye. You did know before you found out you were pregnant that you were going to get married.
Get married now, romantically, at the County Clerk's office on your lunch hour with just your mom and dad and his in attendance, and all go out to a festive lunch. Then (in six months if you have already paid the deposit on the hall or) a year, throw a big party, to celebrate your (six month or a year) anniversary and the advent of the baby.
Go have a blowout weekend in Vegas and get married by an Elvis impersonator, and call your family in the middle of the night and drunkenly tell them what the heck, we just decided on the spur of the moment, why wait.