HELP

[meow325]

hi!! i had unprotected sex 22 days before. My period was due 4 days before. This means its 4 days late. I dont have any symptoms regarding pregnancy but still i dont know what to do. When should i conduct a pregnancy test which will give me accurate results? Incase if i am pregnant, then is it the right time to dissolve this pregnancy with medication? reply soon i am really worried

[meow325]

i will surely get them

[kandjmom]

yeah if you can get the birth control pills you only take one a day or whatever the directions to tell you to take. you can take them and not get pregnant and still have sex. can you get the birth control pills over there? if you can I would that way when you have sex you won't get pregnant.. over here we have different kinds of birth control. you can get the pill there's a patch and there's a nuva ring. but if I were you I would get the pills

[nionirayne]

My last cycle started 17th of april an my period is going on six days late.. but I'm pregnant. I found out the day my period was due.. I'm lookin at 3-4 weeks of pregnancy.. I also know the abortion pill can work up to nine weeks.. if that is wat yu choose it makes yu have a miscarrige.. an it cost a lot of money but there is a place that will help pay for it.. its called National Abortion Federation NAF.. if uu feel like yu must choose this route then there is someone to help.. but if there is a slight chance yu will be fine with the baby then have it.. or give toa family who cant have babies of their own.. but y yur ssituation could be difficult an no one knows yur story.. do wat yu feel an I hope I helped wit yur problem

[nionirayne]

My last cycle started 17th of april an my period is going on six days late.. but I'm pregnant. I found out the day my period was due.. I'm lookin at 3-4 weeks of pregnancy.. I also know the abortion pill can work up to nine weeks.. if that is wat yu choose it makes yu have a miscarrige.. an it cost a lot of money but there is a place that will help pay for it.. its called National Abortion Federation NAF.. if uu feel like yu must choose this route then there is someone to help.. but if there is a slight chance yu will be fine with the baby then have it.. or give toa family who cant have babies of their own.. but y yur ssituation could be difficult an no one knows yur story.. do wat yu feel an I hope I helped wit yur problem

[meow325]

yeah the pills are available here but i really dont know their names.. do u guys mean i should take the pills now? what about the dosage?

[dancemom85]

Yeah, sorry about all that! I just get worked up about that particular issue. I am glad you are not pregnant so you don't have to face any of that- things are obviously different in your country and that would have been scary for you no matter what you did! Hopefully you can get on a birth control pill or something if that is available to you!

[kandjmom]

Ok, but I was wondering if you could get birth control pills over there. that way you don't have to worry about getting pregnant.

[meow325]

guys please dont fight because of me :( i didnt know what to do at that moment i was so stressed out. The reason of this stress was also the illegal pregnancy and also the thing that i didnt want to kill my baby. Me and my boyfriend have always thought about having kids but only after marriage. This was a mistake but ThankGod my test was negative. It showed that i am not pregnant and i dont have to kill my baby now... so i am happy for this.

[jerica86]

I understand, just rubbed me the wrong way, gotta love stress pregnancy hormones I'm sorry as well

[kandjmom]

but she's not pregnant anyway. so she does not have to worry about making a choice. and I see your point. I was just trying to help her.

[kandjmom]

@jerica.. I just read your post again. at the time I posted what I said I did not understand what you posted. I thought you were trying to say she was 9 weeks pregnant. not up to 9 weeks.

[dancemom85]

What about the baby's choice?

[kandjmom]

@dancemom, it is her choice and nobody elses. in Pakistan it is illegal for a woman to get pregnant before marriage.

[kandjmom]

@jerica.. no I did not read all of your post..sorry for that. but you did not have to get an attitude.
and I do agree with what you said but is her choice. it does affect you mentally and physically.  

[dancemom85]

I agree! No matter what it's ending a life, and that will affect you emotionally forever!!

[jerica86]

And I did read it I get where she's coming from but an abortion even the pill has side affects emotionally and physically. I didn't say it wasn't her choice I simply asked her to think about all possible options

[jerica86]

Obviously you didn't read my post so don't you dare get rude with me!!!! I said the plan b won't work and that from the sounds of it she's not 9 weeks therefore the pill would work but to just really think about it before she did it. So why don't you get off your high horse and quite being a rude witch when all I was doing was answering the question!

[kandjmom]

yeah are you taking any kind of birth control pills?

[meow325]

r u talking about the
birth control pills??

[kandjmom]

I'm so happy for you and don't stress out anymore. and remember don't have sex 14 days before your next cycle or anywhere around that day. everyone ovulates on a different day. so do you have birth control you can take now?

[meow325]

the result was negative..

[meow325]

thankyou so much the result was negative.. i tested it today :)

[Cheekigal]

aaaaw I feel for u babe I really do... I hope u get ur negative results chin up sweety hopefully ur period is just late...keep us posted and stay strong with whatever ur outcome is u can find new friends that will help u with support on here to help u through anything hunni.xxx

[kandjmom]

Shes not 9 weeks she's 5 weeks. and it is her choice. if you would have read all the post the would understand why.