Husband and porn

[adri1413]

Ok, so here's my situation. My husband has looked at porn before in the past and I don't agree with it. I feel like him looking at porn is in a way saying that I'm not good enough for him or satisfying him in that way. Like my body is not attractive to him so he has to look elsewhere. Anyway so I've explained to him how I feel about it and he apologized and said he understood. Today I found porn on his phone AGAIN. He said it's from the last time but that's a lie cuz the last time I deleted it in front of him. He is acting like he doesn't care and oh well. And the said thing is I just told him this morning how I feel distant from him and I didn't like how we weren't having sex and he said sorry and nothing's going on and he will make a
a better effort. But ugh it makes me so mad and I more upset he's lieing about it and shows no remorse for me. I'm 14 weeks pregnant. already gained about 8 lbs, have stretch marks galore showing from previous pregnancies, exhausted all day, working full time and taking care of kids now this is just icing on the cake. I feel like crying. Sorry so long, needed to vent. Thanks ladies!

[weezy789]

Guys are going to look at porn. Period. Don't take it personally... It has nothing to do with how he feels about you. Asking him to not look at porn is putting him in a position where he feels like has to lie to you and that makes things worse. I'm big on the don't ask, don't tell policy when it comes to porn.

[worriedmomtobe2014]

I am the same way I feel its very disrespectful and like I'm not wanted or that I'm not good looking enough and that its cheating bc there looking at another woman naked when its sapsoe to be is for rest of there lives and that they masterbate to it and get off looking at othwr woman its bs and I've had several conversations with my fiance about it yet he says he doesn't anymore but I still feel like he does and I hate it ...good luck

[Sass508]

Sometimes the more we tell someone they can't have it, the more they want it. I know it's crazy.