hubbys watching porn?

[lmcplus4]

So I went to set my hubvys alarm on his phone and unlocked it BAM porn ... I just clicked off and set the alarm idk if he knows I saw it. But seriously I try not to let it bug me I do t wanna be that psycho girl in his life. I think it bugs me because I'm 25 w pregnant and I don't feel so attractive ... and I compleatly understand I don't like to have sex as much as we used to obvisly so I try not to care. But deep down it bugs me he'd rather watch porn and go to bed other then even try to have sex after i get out toddler to bed at night .... does anyone have this issue how do u deal with it??

[doulamommy]

He'd deserve it in my opinion. But that's your call.

[lmcplus4]

I'm just hormonal lol I shuldent let it bug me I'm sure its nothing personal but looking at him sleeping I seriously wanna punch him in his d!! Haha I'm thinking about it... :0

[doulamommy]

Oh cheer up mama. Men can be insensitive! I've enjoyed reading through this debate. Damn we are done opinionated women when it comes to our porn lol! But seriously, there are times when we all take it too far. I think Imcplus4 just experienced that.
Porn as a way to fill in the gaps when wifey just isn't up for it? Maybe okay. Penn instead of wifey - not okay. I'm sorry mama.

[lmcplus4]

So lady's!!
To top it all off I totally came on to him tonight making a point that I obvisly wanted to have sex tonight and he works hard outside all day so of course he wanted to take a shower first... bit wanted it to be known I wanted to do it tonight thinking he will take a quick shower and jump on it!!...
. WRONG took a long *** shower after o finished cooking dinner and cleaning up the kitchen and he is PASSED OUT… I'm so sad he just dose not want me I guess.

[titan_nation]

The father of mine admitted to me that he does it. This normally wouldn't be a problem, as I'm not overly controlling or cunty about that kind of thing. Except that he was addicted to it, to the point where for a very long time he couldn't even get off having sex with me. He had promised after I'd caught him in the act a year ago that he'd never do it again. Some stuff happened so we aren't living together anymore, and I told him I knew he was doing it and he lied to me about it. When he finally owned up to it after more times of not being able to successfully have sex together, I had a literal hour long fit over it. Mostly because he lied, the rest is the fact that I am pregnant with his kid and the fact that he said he ONLY watches this ONE PARTICULAR GIRL made it exactly the same as cheating. If he was doing it just for the skin, and because we only have 1-3 times we can even try having sex per week, I honestly wouldn't care. But the fact he's only watching ONE GIRL, does it often enough that he CANNOT GET OFF TO ME, and thay he LIED ABOUT IT for 3 months made me funking PEEVED off. So he got his earful, and so should he.

[bumpinbaby1995]

@Calico236 , you couldnt have said it any better !!!!!!!!!