hubbys watching porn?

[lmcplus4]

So I went to set my hubvys alarm on his phone and unlocked it BAM porn ... I just clicked off and set the alarm idk if he knows I saw it. But seriously I try not to let it bug me I do t wanna be that psycho girl in his life. I think it bugs me because I'm 25 w pregnant and I don't feel so attractive ... and I compleatly understand I don't like to have sex as much as we used to obvisly so I try not to care. But deep down it bugs me he'd rather watch porn and go to bed other then even try to have sex after i get out toddler to bed at night .... does anyone have this issue how do u deal with it??

[LillyM321]

If you don't feel like having sex he needs to respect that. A lot of married couples feel like they're entitled to each other's bodies. If you ask me, my husband does NOT own my body. My body is mine and it will be respected. If I don't want to have sex and it hurts too much ... why would he want to hurt me ? Just a thought I wanted to throw out there.

[lmcplus4]

Most guys do look at porn but should respect there loved one when  they say they don't agree. When we we're first together I seen it all the time never thought twice about it but after I got pregnant the first time I must have gotten self asteam issues it started begging me more and more. Then seen he texted his ex at one point and I think I just had trust issues and got pissed when I seen it like I just was not what he wanted anymore ... he had not made me even think twice about it lately but he also is getting careless about it like not even clicking off of it when he is done its just there. && I'm also home when he does it. There is times I do t feel like it. But most of the time I will. It just gets old being pregnant because he only does it on our side and hes behind me every single Time. Just because km pregnant doesn't mean I don't wanna spice it up still. So o think if he watches porn he might spice it up bit no its still the same between us .... idk I have mixed feelings about it I think I'm gonna keep my mouth shut till after i have the baby and feel better about myself if he still goes back to porn after I start getting my body back I'm gonna be really upset :( its gonna bug be every time because I KNOW what Jes doing in the shower for a hour + ... but I'll have to keep myself busie and get over it.

[LadyBeeley]

Odds are the ones you talk to and say uts disgusting still watch it, look at it, read it, talk about it. They just know they have to be sneaky with you. After all if youve ever read a steamy romance novel who are you to judge?Or hey what about steamy make out scenes in movies? Idk I just dont see the harm cuz in the end hes with you and not anyone else. Every one has urges and to say you never think of anything remotely kinky or different than usual is just nonsense.

But I also watch porn, even show bf things that make him feel uneasy bc its different so im probanly talking from the other side of this argument.

[calico236]

It's not every guys nature. At all. Most guys? Yes. My fiance honestly finds porn disgusting and repulsive and a joke. We went two months without having sex at first because I simply couldn't.  A true man can handle himself perfect fine without having sex. It's not a mandatory to life and any good man should be more concerned about you and how your feeling rather than needing to go wack off and fill his own "needs".

[ajjlove11]

I dont see the big deal in this...seriously my hubby and I havent had sex in over a month because im never in the mood and it hurts to have sex..soo I dont even check his.phone or ask him if he watches it, im pretty sure he has here and there but I dont even want to know...as long as hes not acting weirdand.trying to cheat on me I understand he is a man and has needs if he watches porn I dont think he loves me less or doesnt find.me attractive im saying this because I watched porn before when.he was at work and my feelings for him didnt.change, its not cheating everyones gotta chill out and understand its a guys nature to do stuff like that...idk maybe im too chill about it because I did it too idk I dont think its really a big deal but everyone thinks different

[brooke_mama92]

I like this topic. In my own personal opinion I really dont mind if my hubby watches porn just cause to me its like a fantasy thing because we all know in real life those women wouldnt give our men the time or day. I mean yes I watch porn once and a blue moon( not since ive been pregnant tho lol at this point if I want sex am gonna get the real deal lol) I just think its kinda human to look at porn once in awhile. But if u two have talked about how it bothers u then he should respect your feelings and recognize its not ok to make you feel that way.