hubbys watching porn?

[lmcplus4]

So I went to set my hubvys alarm on his phone and unlocked it BAM porn ... I just clicked off and set the alarm idk if he knows I saw it. But seriously I try not to let it bug me I do t wanna be that psycho girl in his life. I think it bugs me because I'm 25 w pregnant and I don't feel so attractive ... and I compleatly understand I don't like to have sex as much as we used to obvisly so I try not to care. But deep down it bugs me he'd rather watch porn and go to bed other then even try to have sex after i get out toddler to bed at night .... does anyone have this issue how do u deal with it??

[bumpinbaby1995]

Porn is disgusting . How can you watch sluts & perverted men have sex?, yeah I would talk to him abt it, if you feel some type of way then speak your mind & opinion.

[pumpkin_buns]

In my marriage I would consider that cheating -- but regardless of whether or not you agree, since it bothers you it's not ok! Talk with him about the issue and tell him how it makes you feel, hopefully he will respect you!
If he doesn't,  You should calmly suggest seeing a counselor.  This does not mean your relationship is broken! My husband and I saw a premarital counselor,  not because something was wrong but so that we could transition into our marriage easily and prepare for future situations we could not foresee. It really helped us solve future issues!
Besides, if you want him to stop you will probably need the guidance of professional help because porn is extremely addictive.
Like I said, neither I or my husband have had this issue, but a counselor will help so much! And maybe it will make your husband realize how much it hurts you and that you take this issue seriously

[Damilette]

Ok.... I watch porn... my husband doesn't!!! Lol ... I am the one who does it, and he knows it! From the very beginning he knows I am a very sexual person, but if he can't keep up with me I will not be frustrasted, I would just do it myself! He doesn't care!!! What do u prefer? He watching porn or he cheating with another woman? Just talk to him momma, we all have our sexual needs... talk with him, let him know how u feel about it and ask him why is he doing that. You are parters, not strangers! Just ask him hun! :) Good luck!

[asmith21488]

It could be much worse...i understand it may not be comfy for you but if hes trird and youve turnrd him down why should he keep trying? Atleast hes not out there looking...ive never seen the big deal cuz i watch.porn and in both my pregnancies ive been a nympho...sorry youre feeling that way

[calico236]

@Lily made a very very good point.  

And I'm sorry hun! I hope everything blows over soon. Hang in there♡

[mama_luther]

I'm a little different and I watch porn with my husband.. Also when I'm not in the mood I suggest that he watch porn to satisfy himself as long as he's not touching another woman i don't have a problem and I would rather him watch porn than be tempted to find another woman to satisfy him (not that he would ever do that anyway) and please do not bash me because we choose a different lifestyle than you do because I'm sure your closets have skeletons also!