*******!

[Franky91]

My boyfriend is an *******, how often do u girls see ur other half? I only see him once a week for three hours if that and then hes off out with his pals and he wonders why he keeps missin this little girls kicks, seriously I have pelvic grindle pain and I gave a chest infection am really ill right now and hes out with his pals! Why isnt he here lookin after me I dont feel like I should ask him to b here I expect him to b here because he wants to look after me!

[fnmissy]

Omgsh so I was like u I let him. Go though and it's been ano ut two weeks he's realized so much and got out what he had to I guess!! Let him go...see if he comes backbest of luck

[stacey10]

Sounds like in his own way he is already stomping on your heart, he as you said should want to be at home with you and your bump, he really needs a good talking to, boy/men are like children and sometimes you just have to lay down the law, the problem is you have let this go on, when maybe you should have niped it in the bud when it first started happening, and now he has the perfect excuse, now his b/f is single, to me you have 3 options, 1. Keep putting up with it in the hope he'ss change (he wont) 2. talk to him and tell him you expected more of him, and this (blah blah)  is what you expect of a partner, make sure you tell him what you want out of the relationship and what you expect from him   3. Go it alone, because your practically doing that now,   good luck

[babyboy111]

but dont settle....cuz ur not happy....if u love him so much then why does it bother u that he goes out all the time and u only see him once a week? ud let him stomp on ur heart? that doesnt sound right to me

[Franky91]

A break is the last thing I want I love him so much he could literually stomp on my heart and ad still want to be with him hes my first guy I.have fallen in love with, I was such a player before him and he settled me down

[babyboy111]

ya i wouldnt put up with that....maybe u guys should take a break?

[Franky91]

Thanks for all the advice girls :)

[fnmissy]

If he's doing it now u Hunny don't expect him to change when he or she is here get stromg so u can be p 're pared to be a good mommy

[Franky91]

I only see him once a week because he chooses his friends over me his best pal became single 6 weeks ago and since then hes never stopped hangin out with him

[katngary143]

Franky if u want to catch him in the act and know if he is cheating send a close gf to that bar or go yourself lol I would I just dont get it why guys do this to their preggers gf or wives I cant figure it out

I hope that u can talk to him and he will come around but if u ask if he is cheating I mean idk if he will come clean or not

[babyboy111]

franky why di u only see him once a week? he works alot...?

[Bri_1985]

I would never jump to cheating conclusions without something more concrete. A lie like that doesnt justify any cheating conclusions and thats usually an instant relationship breaker married or no. Defintely talk to him about it though but dont toss around the "cheating accusations" so easily.

[Bri_1985]

I dont think so. Id say hes lying his *** off though and would confront him somehow without starting a fight if possible.

[LaurenMH]

Id have suspicions of cheating if my husband was like that. The only thing you can really do is try to sit him down and talk to him. I mean if he stays gone that long while your pregnant will he be that way when your baby is here?

[Franky91]

Reason to believe hes cheatin on me!? I went on his fb page clicked on his pals page who am not friends with but I can see his wall and I find out he was at the pub friday night and he txted me at 11 tht night sayin he was goin to bed and this status was posted at 2.31? Reason enough?

[Franky91]

Oh tht doesnt sound too good, must have alot of dust and stuff in the enviroment

[Bri_1985]

I will put up with the chill if it means fresh air believe me! Lol. I get sick all the time here in Indy and I know its the environment because I never was sick as bad when living in Virginia. Its sad that when on vacation in Florida I never had a problem and just stepping off the plane back in Indy I had an asthma attack.

[Franky91]

@bri_1985 thats funny lol scotland isnt that great its cold all the time if I want a summer I have to leave the country haha but one thing I will say is our tap water is sooo fresh as is the fresh air and good walkin places lol

[mommy2b91]

Yes it is

[neeeeksx]

it took time for my boyfriend too realise but he did eventually get a kick up the backside

[Bri_1985]

Completely unrelated and Im sorry but I couldnt help but say Scotland is #1 on my top three places to travel to one of these days lol. We've traced our family history to Scotland and Ive been obsessed with going ever since to see any distant relatives we might have.

[Franky91]

Aw hope my boyfriend sees the light and decides to buck up too

[neeeeksx]

my boyfriend was exactly the same with me for weeks until I finally sat him down and told him exactly how I felt now I cant get rid of him I haven't stopped him fron going to see his friends or that but he chose not to go out and drink etc now he always says he would rather spend time with me and the bump, hope everything works out for you :) x

[Franky91]

This is goin to sound daft but thats the place hairspary was set in ay? Lol

[mommy2b91]

Yes I am lol Baltimore, Maryland