can't please them all

[meg_ftm_sohappy]

So wtf! Lol. I made a post on here about a registry....everyone said it was a good idea, not rude or greedy or anything. Well i also asked some family and friends and got the same response. So my fiance and i decided that instead of doing it at Walmart or target ect we'd do it at babies r us because they are a BABY STORE, they have BABY THINGS... For BABIES! lol
Well i was on the phone with his grandmother for two hours today getting **** from her because of where we made our registry! And she informed me that 'his mother is disappointed in my choice as well' i didn't know what to say! And now idk what to do....do i change my place for my registry just because they're rude and control freaks? Ugh i just don't know...sorry this was halfway a vent *** well as a question. Lol

OH! she also told me i need to hurry up and pick a name for my baby? I was like excuse me?? Just for that comment i plan on keeping my baby girls name to my damn self!

[breee08]

You can just do the registry at both places, babies r us is more expensive

[tabbykatt92]

I would keep it where your at. don't let it seem like they have a say in what you do with your baby cuz then it'll never stop. Thats just my opinion though.

[tattoomommy03]

That ***** I'm sorry. Have a variety of registry that way people can choose. I had to. Not everyone can affort babies r us. But I love the store lol

[ashtom]

Omg that is soooo lame! It's ur choice no matter what!! Almost everyone uses babies r us abd target. Dnt register where u dnt want to. How controlling r they! Ughhhh i just got mad for u lol

[DelainaN]

It's your baby they can go cry about it lol gah people these days

[meg_ftm_sohappy]

Her grandson is the reason its there though... Not me. He well we both feel like the better safety features for what we chose is at babies r us.This is our first baby and this stuff is nerve racking! Babies should just come with giant bubbles where only the mommy and daddy can touch them and they are safe forever!

[meg_ftm_sohappy]

The name thing pissed me off though...that was to much.

[DelainaN]

Are you having a boy or a girl?

[tabbykatt92]

I wouldn't change a thing. this is your child do what you feel is best. plus people are going to shop where they want regardless of where you register.

[meg_ftm_sohappy]

Girl <3

[DelainaN]

Aawww! Yay! Watch they won't be satisfied with the name you pick next lol

[meg_ftm_sohappy]

Oh i know I've already experienced that! That's why my little banana doesn't have a name yet. And the poor girls nickname changes every Friday! Next week she's gonna be my little carrot. Haha

[DelainaN]

Hahahaha !

[Shirano]

I registered at Walmart, Target, and Babies R Us. I gives people options however I got like nothing from my registry. People are gonna get what they think is cute so I wouldn't sweat it. Sorry your grandma in law is being a pain. I would just tell her "we decided we wanted to register per only one place and chose babies r us because they have really nice, safe things for our child, that being said people are more then welcome to shop where ever they would like to. Also we have until she is born to decide on a name and are not in a hurry please be patient." Or something like that. It is not rude but it gets the point across that you are in control of your daughters future. It's best to try to make peace with the in laws then to start something even if it is justified. Trust me I know I have done it both ways and now after trying peace it is finally starting to calm down but still has a long way to go. Good luck sweetie.