TTC and confused. Please help!

[HayJ2010]

Okay so my cycle is normally 28 days but this lastc cycle was late by a day and so now it's 29 days. Every ovulation calculator i've done online gives me different results but some are the same and I DON'T like the ovulation calculator on here. Does anyone know what's a good one you'd reccomend or maybe you could help me figure out what my "fertile days" are for sure?! Please help!!

[brit0585]

yes girl sperm live longer and swim slower but boy sperm swim fast but die sooner. So I also tracked just my temp and sometimes my cervical mucus but I used the app on my phone ovuview (android market) and it helped to just imput all my information and other stuff to like headaches and medicine and when DH and i had sex and all sorts of things. It then showed a chart of my temp and how it would rise and fall. Was super helpful. You might be able to just find a chart online though and fill in the information that way. I also read the book taking charge of your fertility and it was very very informative and useful and helpful. But having sex every other day will raise the sperm count for your husband and give better chances of conceiving rather than every day. Good luck to you

[jamie4321]

doing it that away your more like to get a girl.so am going to guess your haven a girl you can try anytime u want if u dont care what the babys sex is but if u want a boy u need to try close as you can to ovulaten time.i read up on it cause i kelp getting girls and really wanted aboy after reading up on it and doing as it said i got my boy.

[HayJ2010]

thanks ladies!

[Mom2amiracle2012]

I was not as smart as these ladies! I just made my husband have sex with me the whole week that I may ovulate. We got pregnant in 3 months though. Ha.

[Swtshae]

Try to use OPKs and check your CM. The ovulation calendar gives you a general idea not a specific time so use the calendar along with monitoring your CM and go from there. I like the website babymed.com. I don't chart or anything because I could never wake up at the same time to take temp but I do hear that's the most effective may. Good luck!

[jamie4321]

it should be day 14 of your cycle.to be for shur i would bye opk and start testing around day 10 of your cycle.every woman is diffrent so i would bye the opk and start testing with those.hope this helps good luck to u

[Carly1306]

Online calculators are not a good way of telling you when you ovulate. These are just rough estimates. The best to tell when you ovulate is to track your BBT (basil body temperature) or using OPKs (ovulation predictor kits).

If you have a 28/29 day cycle, then you obviously ovulate around mid cycle so most likely you'll ovulate around cycle day 13-16 and that would be when you're most likely to be your fertile and should be having sex.