10 weeks

[kymii]

So everyone around me is soooo excited except me I feel so bad for not being happy im 21 and just feel like its to much they said o when u see the ultrasound u will feel different saw my baby and still feel the same just sad tht its all happening is this normal am I just the bad person thts not ready for change?

[2ndBabyDueFeb13th]

If you really arent ready and do not eant the child, then you may still decide to consider adoption or terminating the pregnancy. You dont want to bring a child into the world that you will resent and treat poorly, or not be able to take proper care of. That wouldnt be fair.

[kymii]

Well its nice hearing im not the only one tht has this feeling I guess im not ready to settle down n habe so much resposibility im so use to just getting up n doin whatever I want change is hard for me

[babyjames101113]

I Felt The Same With My Son I WasN't Happy Then It All Changed. I'm Not Sure When It Did But It Was Like I Woke Up One Morning Super Excited. Now That I'm Pregnant With Our Second I'm More Scared And Nervous Than I Was With My Son Only Because No One On My Side Of The Family Knows And I'm Stuck On How To Tell Them, I Know They Will Be Mad Too.

[derrickjrmommy]

:( do you think your ready to settle down and have a baby or no.? That could be why your not too happy i think once you actually start feeling your baby move inside you and you start buying stuff youll feel a lot better

[kymii]

Im not in a baf situation thts wat I dont get I have my own space , and job and my baby daddy is so happy about our first baby but    Im not :/

[derrickjrmommy]

I dont know your situation... but i have a 2 year old and im now 21 and 9 weeks pregnant with my second but im not super happy like i was with my first. The only good things right now are im in my own place and i have my own car. Downers are no job.