just want some support

[kaitymomma2013]

So Ive had four miscarriages. This is my 5th pregnancy and I worry a lot. I didn't feel my baby move for 11hrs. So naturally I tried to get him to move and when he would only give one kick I got a little nervous and called a nurse to talk to. (To ease my troubled mind) and my bf starts yelling at me. "If its going to happen it will you can't change anything. Stop freaking out". Naturally I get really upset and start to cry. If only he could understand the pain I went theough and I am so scared of going through again. I'm 21+6 weeks. Its been very hard going to all thw appointments and ultrasounds alone. Especialy if I go into l&d because I wet myself but didn't feel like I had to pee thinking my water broke. Or when I had bleeding. Instead of him yelling at me he could juat talk to me. Feeling so alone.

[BabyTurnip]

I understand ur pain hun, and sorry for all the pain uve been threw but ur hubby is probably just as scared as you are right now. He has a different way of showing it...probably not the best way either but he must be just as scared. Losing a baby is hard enough on a relationship...losing four is just like a boulder being dropped on u guys. And its great that you both were able to make amends and keep on trying. The bst thing i can think of is maybe tell him that u understand that hes scared too.....and unfortunately you are going to panick at every little pains and u cant helo that but right now u need his support and he needs urs! Andbyelling at you will not make anything better :) its a lot of work and a lot of couples dont make threw but you guys did! And that means something! My mom lost two after my second sister and she told my dad that if she had to go threw it again hes going to lose her....not physically but my mom knew mentally it would ruin her and she wanted to be there for her three girls. Point is you have to be strong together. And definately talk to him....he wont talk first, guys just dont talk and thats why women have to be the sensitive side of the relationship.

[Mommy24721]

This is my fourth pregnancy and I've had three miscarriages i know the feeling i got a fetal doppler to ease my mind it was $30 its on amazon its the best thing I've done most amazing sound ever to hear the little ones heartbeat and know things r ok :) best thing to do is not worry because the more u stress the more problems u have things will get better he is probably just trying to sleep :) if u r really worried call ur doctor but don't get too worked up its not healthy i know it is hard but just relax and rest the baby will move when its ready :)