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Need Advice involving hubby
So my husband and I are having issues with his child support that hes paying an ex who lives with his 17yr old son in KY. He sent an email to the prosecuter's office regarding this and asked me to check his email today for a response.
Well... first I log onto the laptop we're temporarily sharing until we can get another one and find a porn web site he apparently frequents enough to save it. Now Im not upset with this because I know things have been a little cold sexually lately because of my being in pain lately. But I was upset because I know some porn sites can cause computer viruses, etc and this is the only way I can access my school online. If the laptop crashes, Im screwed.
Secondly, I log into his email account and found emails he's sent to some woman that he talks to via AOL when he plays his games like Bingo, etc. Im not against him having female friends and there's no indication of him having any intenions of cheating. BUT she's asked him about whether he was single and when he told her he was happily married in an email she was apparently disappointed. She was even going to steer clear of him but he just wanted to be friends. So she said he would have to remind her that hes married. What irritated me though is that I know this person's screenname and he told me before that it was a teacher he used to have in school - but shes not according to these emails.
How can I reassure him that I trust him? That he doesnt have to lie to me about female friends just like I dont lie to him about my male friends?
Well... first I log onto the laptop we're temporarily sharing until we can get another one and find a porn web site he apparently frequents enough to save it. Now Im not upset with this because I know things have been a little cold sexually lately because of my being in pain lately. But I was upset because I know some porn sites can cause computer viruses, etc and this is the only way I can access my school online. If the laptop crashes, Im screwed.
Secondly, I log into his email account and found emails he's sent to some woman that he talks to via AOL when he plays his games like Bingo, etc. Im not against him having female friends and there's no indication of him having any intenions of cheating. BUT she's asked him about whether he was single and when he told her he was happily married in an email she was apparently disappointed. She was even going to steer clear of him but he just wanted to be friends. So she said he would have to remind her that hes married. What irritated me though is that I know this person's screenname and he told me before that it was a teacher he used to have in school - but shes not according to these emails.
How can I reassure him that I trust him? That he doesnt have to lie to me about female friends just like I dont lie to him about my male friends?
I would confront him and when you do just assure him your not mad and tell him you understand he lied to avoid confrontation but for future situations to tell the truth or it could damper your trust
In my experience, all men lie about those things just to avoid a possible argument eventhough its just a bigger argument when you find that they are lying!! Men can be so difficult at times
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I guess irritated wouldnt be the right word, more like... upset like sad that he seems to feel that I might get angry over it.
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