Venting

[Bellaamomma]

I am ruining everything I am 10+2 and I am ruining my realtionship.
His babies mom came back into the picture now that I'm pregnant and she has always tried to get my boyfriend back.
Even tho she seems totally different this time and I feel as if she means no harm I just don't understand why they have to talk on Facebook snapchat and texting but she hasn't even let him actually talk to his daughter.
And he wants to have sex constantly and it hurts me even though it hurts so bad I push through it cause I know he wants it, it just *****.
And he told me today I was pushing him away cause I don't give him special pleasure and I'm too hormonal.
I just don't know how to shake this being so early in pregnancy.
I am sorry this is so long I just have no one else to talk to right now and I just feel like such a s hitty person.

[Bellaamomma]

Thank yu that is very true I told him about it today, and that's when he flipped out on me and told me about pushing him away!! But I told him he is not seeing it from my point of view. We have a lot to work on. I have faith it's not fair that I take it out on him but I had to find out about her trying to get him back by going thro his phone he never told me even tho it was three years ago this girl is conniving

[nonishy]

It's your hormones and to be honest,  he should only be talking to her about his kid and that's it.
I think he just wants to blame you because he knows what he is doing is wrong.  You should have a talk with him and tell him that he only needs to be talking to her about his kid. That she don't need to be on his fb or anything.  And that it's disrespectful to you that he is doing this.
And that you aren't the one pushing him away, he's pushing himself away. And possibly pushing you away too.