is the whole Hormones are up and down when pregnant true?

[EstieRea]

I've never really had a problem with my hormones even when I had my period. Lately I've been very emotional. I can't stand my husband at the moment. I'm just fed up with everything, even my marriage.
Before we got married, my husband was engaged to another girl. He did so much for her. Got her a "house" a ring, chose her over his family. Weve been married for over a year already. No ring yet. He didn't even tell his family we were getting married. He told them after we got married, I had to make him. and his excuse was that he was scared his parents would get mad at him. He was 20 at the moment, and when he told them they were happy and they love me so much. I am just so sad that I cant get over this and I just want to cry all the time now. I guess it's because I feel like I'm not living the life I wanted to. I'm 20 and I am in college but I have done so much for him. I moved across the country, had to drop out of college while I moved (he's in the mil) I left my fam behind, I left everything. I've tried talking to him about this but he always says "sorry I had a life before you" I know we all had lives before our SO but I dk. I want to get away, and be on my own for a while. Anyways I don't really feel like this is hormones cause even before I got preg I would cry about this. He's also the type of guy that doesn't Chase after me when I cry. He says if its not his fault then he shouldn't go after me.  

[rasberryxtreme]

Yea the hormones suck, but it sounds to me like this is something that has been bothering you for awhilr now. I would sit him down and talk it out otherwise this is something that will always be.in the back of your mind and it's best to talk it out before the baby comes in case you do need time apart. Good luck hun!

[Kate037]

Welcome to hormones :( they su ck. If you think you need to get away, do it. Even if it's just for a night. Go rent a motel or a hotel room, go get a pedicure or a manicure do something for YOU. My hubby doesn't chase after me when I cry even if he is the reason why I am crying, some guys just don't get emotions. The only real advice I have is to try and understand when it's your.hormones and not say things out of anger. It's hard to tell the difference between hormones and genuine feelings but once you get the hang of it it'll get a lot easier.