need help!!

[aubreysue3]

I'm 15 weeks with my first. me and my fiance have been together for three years, have been engaged for a year. we planned our wedding date about three months after we got engaged (witch is next year in June) also been saving for a year now. this year we found out we are having a baby in October and still plan on getting married next year. so now his mom is saying we are only doing it because of the baby. witch makes me so mad.
What can I do to stay stress free and not punch her?

[aubreysue3]

I'm 19 but I'm sure I'm old enough to know what I'm doing my family is just fine with it its just his mom thats not happy.
Aubree is a good name :) congrats to you to

[aubreysue3]

Thanks I'll try that. just really hard to deal with her.  never had the best relationship with her.

[OctoberMommy2014]

this sounds just like me & my fiancé. we've been together (dating) since January'ish of 2012, engaged on February 14 2013, now expecting a baby in October..

I KNOW my family is going to think I'm marrying him just because I'm having a baby with him, but all I can do is tell them what's on my heart and mind - a baby doesn't make a marriage, and I agreed to marry him LONG before this baby was in the mix.

all you/we can do is tell them how it is, but we can't make them accept it.. I also plan on telling them THAT when I have to hear the speech.. b/c I know I'm going to hear it too!! lol plus, I'm 25.. my 26th b-day is Oct. 11th, due Oct. 24th.
I think I'm old enough to know better.. good luck & congratulations!!!
yayyyy for October babies!! (((: ❤

p.s. IF we have a girl, I'm alms 100% sure her name will be Aubree! ((:

[GigiBella]

You know its not true..tell her that she is being hurtful and disrespectful and you'd appreciate it if shed stop. Or just ignore here. Even if it was true,  who cares what she thinks?!