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29 weeks pregnant..whyyy is this happening???

Im 29 weeks pregnant now..and im loving it. i am having severe body issues. sorry but i used to look good. i busted my butt to look as fit as i was. so dont think im being conceeded.  but as ive been getting further along in my pregnancy..and getting bigger...my bumm has major cottage  cheese action going on..and fat thighs. i dont care whatr anyone says they do. and i just recently learned out of no where my husband is looking at alot of half nakey women  on top of cars. posing on cars. it started off nude..but i was like no way dude. either it stops or im out. i was with a guy obsessed with dirty videos etc...im not tolerating that from my husband. i dont care how normal that is. my husband wasnt like that. he wasnt any more than an ocasional maxim looker. but now all day everyday at work hes looking at these half naked women. we somewhat are intimate..not alot..at least 1-2 times a week. i havent wanted to get busy too much and well i guess i gross him out i dont know. theres definately nothing sexy about how big im geting. he ocasionally tells me how beautiful i am..etc...and then sometimes will grab my rather large bum due to being pregnant. its very obviously a sha nae nae butt. today he made a comment he loves my big butt.  but if thats the case why am i barely touched...and why is he constantly looking at these car models. there 90 in thongs etc and bent over facing camera. like cmon.  i miss my sexy body. part of me desperately wants it back...to have my figure back. the other is like whyyy so i can look good to him..screw that. i dont know. but im feeling very insecure and not at all good about myself. i dont know what to do anymore.
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usually whn u get preggo people tend to put on weight u can try a diet or drnk lots of water im 31weeks and have put on 40 pounds doc said its frm cokes meats and sweets i eat im not really concerned w my weight as i knw ill loose it in no time ths is my 5th and i loose all my bby weight within 6weeks but he has told me to try and diet if i was concerned w the weight i also knw is u have gd u will gain alot of weight have u been tested for that.. and u shud feel lucky u have a man who just looks at pics and isnt out cheating ive never understood how women dont let their men have the natural instenct to want to look at pics or porn it isnt like they r out cheating gosh its just pics sometimes u have to let a man fell like a man maybe look at them w him and about the being touched part maybe he feels ur insecurites and doesnt want to b rejected so he is waiting for u to be the inforcer i knw we have raging hormones but i feel ugly at times but im a very confident woman so i stl put on sexy clothing for my guy a pregnant woman is beautiful u should be proud
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YES! What she said above me! Don't feel threatened by him looking at pics! Your insecurities will go away in time, but let your man look at those photos! Nothing wrong with it as long as he's not cheating ya know.
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I'd probably kill my husband if he ever tried that. But my husband has been really supportive and always reminds me "you're growing a person in there" and trust me I've had my fair share of crazy moods
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I'd probably kill my husband if he ever tried that. But my husband has been really supportive and always reminds me "you're growing a person in there" and trust me I've had my fair share of crazy moods
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Your not big from looking at your pictures and if you were fit before pregnancy you will be back to shape after pregnancy.....weight gain is a must....I'm sure he means nothing of the pictures...just seems like a guy thing.
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