worried..

[Tay9662]

ahh.. im getting so frustrated at some people, im already getting nervous cause I only have 3 weeks until baby's born.. but my grandmother wants to be a smartass and say today "well if anything happens to you when your having the baby, im going to just put you in a home and keep the baby" ok so that pissed me off im like my fiancé will get my child long before my child comes near the **** that goes on in your house.. for the past 5/6 weeks she keeps making these comments like "what if you die during delivery, who's going to get the baby" and when I say my fiancé will because he is her dad she gets pissed off -_- its like she wants something to happen to me so she can have my baby. I talked to my mom and she said that my grandmother did it to her to, but I feel like shes trying to control my life and tell me what I can and cant do.. like I got excepted into a 4 year college tuition is paid for, for 2 years well I start looking into some things I want to do (ultrasound tech, dental hygienist, and a RN) well everytime she asks about what I might want to do in January(which is when I will start college) she just puts me down.. like saying I wouldn't be able to do that and its just a waste of time. She asked me what im naming the baby, it has been set since I was 22 weeks im naming her Peayton AverynRae Brown, well she called me a idiot for that(cause im giving my child my fiancés last name). She always has my 3rd cousin over here, he never listens and just breaks things, he will sit outside and ring the doorbell 20-30 times in a row before anyone tells him to stop(and the doorbell is loud because my grandpa cant hear that great) well she wants me to stay with her for a couple weeks after the babys born, but my cousin doesn't start school until Sept 18th and im due Sept 3rd well I don't feel I will get any rest or the baby will be able to get any either especially with my cousin here(if someone turns off his cartoons he will throw himself on the floor and scream bloody murder, if a door is shut he will either open it and go in or start beating on it with whatever he can find ex. shoe, spatula, bowl etc. and he's been playing with scissors and knives lately and no one corrects him. they push all of his wrong doings off saying "he's a baby" he's 6.. fixing to turn 7) im just sick of how I get treated by people that should love me(maybe I should just say her and her niece"which calls her mama and her son is the cousin that lives there") me and my fiancé have our own place, but I wanted someone who could help me since im a ftm.. but ive given up on her I refuse to let my child grow up around people that put you down, im just going to get my other grandmother to help(she has said shes going to take off work the first 2 weeks anyway, so I can have her show me how to do the same things as my other grandmother was going to) sorry I just had to vent im so mad I just don't feel a grandmother should be saying "what if you die during labor"  I know its a possibility but who really wants to think "im going to die"

[JaidennsMommi]

When i was 3-4 months pregnant i went to my gma house and my family was there(mom,dad,brothers,sil), well ma brother comes and tells me that they had been argueing about who would get my son if anything ever happens to me (hes almost 2) and that my mom brought up tha subject and she said she would get him and my brother said no him and his wife would because my mom wasnt and still isnt doing her job as a mom....i was just like why would someone even talk about that or bring that up out of nowere...shes always act like my son was hers and says he likes her more then me...my mom is just crazy and an attention seeker

[kjones0924]

Well when that time comes tell the nurses you only want your mom and fiance in the room. If she comes in make sure you're holding her hand. He he

[Tay9662]

Lol she's not just my mom and fiance.  But I just don't know how to say it without starting a fight.. she never listens and its just annoying

[kjones0924]

I have one of those grandmas to. What it is she thinks she can do better then you in raising your child. When you have the baby she may even try to tell you how to feed it how to change the diapers don't do this and that. I would ignore it really. I wouldn't let her come in the delivery room for sure. She would probably tell you how to push.