Okay , I have Alot of questions that need to be answered. Why is it that most women during their first pregnacy dont show at 16weeks and so on ? Now my other question is a bit hard to explain Im 19 weeks and 6days and i can not tell if what im feeling is my baby boy . Sometimes when im lying down and the father talks to my stomach i get this lil pressure that moves in front of my stomach that makes it feel really hard . and you can tell because it sticks out like if it was a knot . So my question is (IS THAT MY BABy ?) Sorry for the long paragraph.