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35+3 just broke up with boyfriend
Been together for 6 years and we also have a 16 month old he was just horrible to me and so untrustworthy that I couldn't deal with it anymore. I can barely look at him. I can't leave right away because I will be moving to NC (i live in tx) to be with my family. Since I'm so far along I have to stay with him until after the baby is born. Anyone go through something similar? How do I deal with this horrible pain. I never knew I could suffer so much. I still love him even though I don't want to.
I can't know for sure what hell do but he says he won't force me to stay in tx I was mainly asking everyone how to deal with this emotionaly its so awful I'm afraid I won't recover or he will find a way to sucker me back in before the baby is born I feel so weak
According to DCF in my county you don't even have to have an open custody case as long as dads name is on birth certificate you cannot leave the state without his permission, my old man has 2 kids from 2 other women, that's how I know
Um..if he was a ******* to you why would you think he'd be nice enough to let you leave, he's probably already looked up the laws
He knows I have no where else to go hopefully he won't be that much of an *** lol he was the abusive a s s hole now he has to pay the price I just hate that innocent babies are being thrown into the mix
Oregon custody laws says that once custody is granted (split), you can't move more than 60 miles away from the other parent without it going back through court.
i know that in FL if you leave before he tries to fight for custody the state cant not make you come back but if you wait and have an open custody case you are not allowed to leave... i would suggest look in to the laws of TX...
He's not gonna stop me leaving the state or so he says. But he wants partial custody idk how that will work it terrifies me. I wish I could just be rid of him but that's not fair to the babies :'(
I would be careful... I know in the state of Florida that the mom can't leave with her kids if the father of the children says no.. very sorry to hear about what you're going through
It's so hard to let him go. I love him so much but the relationship is toxic and so is he. I've been with him since I was 16 I've never loved anyone else and cant ever see myself loving someone the way I loved him. This ***** so bad
If he loves you and his kids he will come to NC and try to make things right. If he just comes to see his kids then he thinks y'all broke up at no fault of his own. Or he maynot come at all.
You shouldn't if he doesn't care then why should you as long as your a good mother he shouldn't phase you when the right person comes along you'll know it , or it could be you'll never know what you're. Missing till its gone (referring to him) you don't have to feel guilty without he should be the one that feels that way
I also feel guilty for moving his children so far away but I have no where else to go. I really shouldnt feel bad for his *** but I do and I feel sorry for my daughters
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