scared!!

[ammanda]

Okay so the story is, I havnt started any birth control since my sons been born 3 months ago.  Due to insurance problems.  ive been being very careful, but last week me and my ex were in the heat of the moment and did not use a condom, although he did pull out i know thats not very defienant.  what scares me is i had sex with my other ex boyfriend 2 weeks ago. we used a condom and i watched him put it on and take it off. it was the biggest mistake of my life, story behind that is my babys father the man im in love with, is the type to say things just to hurt u, and we were fighting before i went out that night and he told me he had moved on, so i was heart broken and wanted to move on as well to try and get over the fact that he could do that to me so quickly. so i slept with my ex before him. idk i keep having these thoughts running through my head on what i would do if i was pregnant. would I keep it? i dont believe in abortion. but i couldnt go through a pregnancy thinking if my other ex could be the father. although i KNOW he used a condom and the love of my life didnt.  but it wont get out of my head. any suggestions?

[cherylsangel]

And also remember that being stressed can cause your period to come late or not show at all...so take everyones advice and try for the moment to relax so that your period will come when expected and not cause you to stress out more which will create a vicious cycle of stress and no period....btw how is Cole doing? 3 months already that is crazy, feels like he was  just born yesterday!

[Limonada]

I agree with jennkaye - you're probably not pregnant....but maybe you should be extra careful, especially around your fertile days, if you have no desire to get pregnant again right now.

[Cassandrajane]

Have you had a period since Cole was born?
I would say if you have got PG again, it is the 2nd ones, because you saw him put it on take it off and you would have seen any probs with it :)

RELAX :)

x

[LosingMyMindInGA]

My advice is to R-E-L-A-X :) you most likely are freaking yourself out over absolutely nothing.  Even if you WERE pregnant the chances are higher that it would be Cole's FULL Sibling being as it was HIS dad who did NOT use a condom.  When was your LMP and how long are your cycles typically?

[jenkaye21]

My advice?  Learn from your experiences.  Chances are, you are safe, since a condom is 99% effective.  I agree, don't get too worked up, but remind yourself not to get in that position again.

[waitn838]

my suggestion is before you get yourself all worked up wait until your period is due...if it comes no more worrying...if not then take a test and see what that says...always remember to take things in steps...otherwise everything gets overwhelming very quickly....best of luck to you