a little upset

[Dianayvonne]

So im 17weeks with my first baby Im 19 and live with my parents.  I want to move out and have my own family with my boyfriend but at my own place with he sayto wait that we can live at hes mom cause she has a house of 3room and its just her and my boyfriend. I really dont like hes mom cause shes always on my business whats a nice way to tell my boyfriend that we need our own place just us 3 as a family he seems to not want to leave hes mom and I really dont want to have problems with his mom. Can someone help me out

[Nathaly421]

Im also 19 and im in the same situation. I dont know whats best for me and my baby, my parents want me to stay at their house, but my boyfriend wants me to go live at his parents house until we have money to get our own place. His parents are really nice but i know im not gonna have the same freedom as i do in my house. And I cant ask my bf to get our own place right know because i know we cant afford it. Its a hard decision but think for whats best for you and your baby

[bubzbeauty29]

I stay with my parents annd i work i pay my own car...i'm glad i never moved in with my baby daddy because he started problems and now we are separated he doesn't even.text me to check on my pregnancy .....i think u should wait and get it together first

[Tattooed_Mama20]

SMH. I'm 20 and live on my own...but Im seriously considering going back home with my mom because she offered and has the space for us. I think that moving in with him and his mom is the best thing for you. And I hate to say it but you need to mature up for you and your baby and make the most logical decision. A child makes you grown in more ways than one so I understand your need to be free....but at this point sucking it up and dealing with his mom is a better alternative than struggling to live on your own just because its what you would rather do.

[c_woody91]

In all honesty you shod just take the offer and move in over there. It is so much easier when you don't have to worry about rent and all the bills that come with moving out.

[kcarter2498]

I'm 19 and when I first found out I was prego my boyfriend and I still lived at my moms and we weren't getting along with her to well anymore. She wanted us to stay with her but I just knew that was not the best idea so we took advantage of the time we had left until baby was here and saved our money. I'm 36 weeks now and my boyfriend live on our own 2 bedroom appt and couldn't be more happy :) its possible just put your mind in it and save save save cause that will be too hard once baby is here! Good luck!

[serpantdedieu]

Take what you can get! And think about what's best for baby. I personally would say move in for now but immediately start working on you and your man getting your own place

[Jen9588]

I think staying with his mom is a good idea you guys can take advantage and save up, actually have money i live on my own with my bf and my baby will be here in aug. And if we didnt have to pay rent itd be so much easier, its harder than you think.