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So im 21 and pregnant with my first... My mum and dad broke up and my dads 44 hes now got a new girlfriend thats 18... His new girlfriends now pregnant lol and roughly 4 weeks behind me lol so basically im wondering how would you deal with this lmao hes said to be nice and civil.. But thats what ive been for the first however many months of their relationship lol
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Its a shame bcos ur mum will hav been with him for such a long time. And now hes startin another family with someone else. A very young someone else. So yeah its defo crazy. Do u see them much or that?
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Yea its kinda been one of they omg moments.  my mum doesnt know yet so thatl be fantastic NOTTT lol... Im just going to be like cool and ignore it and yea haha theres to many things that make it crazy like you wouldnt believe
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I'm sorry but I'm 19 and if a guy that age even tried to hit on me I would be disgusted!! Never would I date someone my fathers age or anything! That's gross! Just my opinion
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I know exactly how u feel, I'm 20 and my dad started datinga 25-year-old woman they ended up getting pregnant and their baby is now I believe to be 2 years old and now that I'm pregnant I'm going to be having baby that's only two years younger than my own brother. When i told my dad i was having a bAby he wasnt very enthusiastic and i kept getting the impression that he was upset and expected me to drop everything for his child..so we haven't had the greatest relationship and so I've mostly just stayed away from all of his drama with his girlfriend and there was no real healthy relationship between me and my brother being that were practically 20 years apart. My advice just be happy with you and your new coming baby enjoy your pregnancy and focus on just your self and your baby
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WoW! Thats crazy. What do men think? Hows ur poor mum feelin about that? I couldnt imagine bein in this kind of situation. But defo be focusin on u and baby. And for ur dad to tell u to be 'Civil' he knws hes in th wrong. Just hope him and his young gd stay together for sake of baby. Hope it all works out in th end.
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Oh my goodness... If my father was with an 18 year old (I'm 19). I think I'd vomit. So sorry you even have to try to deal with this. I think focusing on you is the best thing you can do to keep your sanity.
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Yea.. I think im just going to focus on me... Deary me drama is annoying.. Thank you
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Well ur dad has to be more understanding in this situation bc now ur been put on a situation where u have some around ur age thts also pregnant n older pr younder only in a few years n thts not easy to cope with specially when pregnant. It will be hard for me if my dad had an 18yr old girl pregnant too n i wouldnt like to lose tht connection n bonding with him due to his girlfriend now being preg. Good luck momma just dont get in the mix w baby momma drama
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