Aa
ADVICE, SAD, LONLEY , DEPRESSED ;(
I really need ADVICE please.
So im 20 years old and im 10 Weeks and 4 days, ive been with been with my bf/bd for 3 in half years. The only problem is he lives in Chicago and I live in Utah. We have always visited each other back and forth and he's coming this Friday to see me and come to my doc appointment march 5th and everytime I talk about the baby he says he dosent wanna talk about it and he told me at first to get an abortion and he bought me an engament ring n when he comes here he is gonna propose but tonight he told me he wont marry me if I keep the baby and he dosent want it. Im so sad and upset like idk what to do, I just keep telling him will talk about it when I see u . I dont want to get an abortion I told him but hes emotionally and mentally tearing me apart and I love him more than anything and idk what to do I was hoping when he comes my appointment and sees the ultra sound he'll come around but I dont think thats gonna happen ;( idk wat to do, help any advice!
So im 20 years old and im 10 Weeks and 4 days, ive been with been with my bf/bd for 3 in half years. The only problem is he lives in Chicago and I live in Utah. We have always visited each other back and forth and he's coming this Friday to see me and come to my doc appointment march 5th and everytime I talk about the baby he says he dosent wanna talk about it and he told me at first to get an abortion and he bought me an engament ring n when he comes here he is gonna propose but tonight he told me he wont marry me if I keep the baby and he dosent want it. Im so sad and upset like idk what to do, I just keep telling him will talk about it when I see u . I dont want to get an abortion I told him but hes emotionally and mentally tearing me apart and I love him more than anything and idk what to do I was hoping when he comes my appointment and sees the ultra sound he'll come around but I dont think thats gonna happen ;( idk wat to do, help any advice!
And as much as I know its hard try ur hardest to not stress cuz its not good for the baby.
Yeah he does and thats what im trynna tell him , but he'll get a piece of my mind when he comes here
Im pregnant now im my bf 24 also and that never when to his head he was very happy when he found out I was preggo and we live together as a happy fam
My baby father. Is the same way he doesn't want nothing to do with me nor the baby's life am 4months and a week and he cares more about geting back with his first baby mother then to take responsibilities and says I need to get an abortion but I have faith in. Myself and I can do this without him. And u should have faith in urself also.
Yea girl even if he says he not ready..
He knows what he was doing ..he could of took
Care of himself now is too late and he has to face the consequences like a man
He knows what he was doing ..he could of took
Care of himself now is too late and he has to face the consequences like a man
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